mmm... just did a couple of searches.
Nothing on facebook for my Heather but typing in Heather and our surname (which is unusual) in bebo came up with a entry where the only details visible were female and age (33). Coincedence? maybe but..........
I think I need to ask a Heather if she is signed up on Bebo and do a little digging.
She chats to her friends on MSN regularly but is carefull to blank the screen when she spots me looking over her shoulder