Simple fact is that Heather doesn't own the computer - you do.  My kids do not get to hide stuff in the computer.  I know all the passwords and if they change one, they have to tell me or I block them off the whole system.  I rarely have to look.  There are key pointers for when I need to check what is going on and if I see the markers and they won't tell me what is going on then I will check.  They know the system I use and mostly they find it easier to tell me what is bugging them.

 

Lulu got a strange MSN contact the other day.  Matt from Nelson said he was 13 but wouldn't say how he got her contact.

 

She politely pointed out that she had no proof he was 13 from Nelson and in fact could be 53 from Auckland and a pervert.  Matt was a little shocked I think that someone would think that and backed off.  I'm quite proud of my bimbo child.  She isn't bimbo when it counts.