Now don't forget there is a big difference between the Social Workers in Schools - who as you pointed out Lovelee have quals... and your run of the mill do-gooder counsellor.  If they are an actual social worker - they are overstepping their bounds in trying to diagnose a client.  That is dangerous and unethical.

 

Wgtn - a trip away is not selfish.  What you two have been though health and otherwise - you bloody deserve an overseas holiday.  And I couldn't think of two more beautiful places than Melbourne and Hobart.  If you decide to take the overnight ferry from Melbourne to Devonport - advice, splash out on a cabin with a window!