Karey that Bill of Rights came from a book by Iris Bolton "My Son, My Son".

 

Although it is written about the loss of her son, it is suitable for anyone dealing with the aftermath.  It is by far the best resource for survivors I have seen (and believe me I have read a lot of books on the topic).

 

There are a number of appendix's at the back of the book with heaps of great info.  I had to get my copy from overseas but you may well get it these days in the library and a google has taken me to Paper Plus.

 

 

More info on Amazon

 

 

When you see your SIL please give her a big hug from me