Spirit Guides 101
A. Guide/s use one major energy (for lack of a better term) to reach you. Unconditional Love of YOU. If you can not unconditionally love yourself, then your contact and connection with your guide/s may be sporadic at best. You can't or don't hear them correctly because they speak from a place of Unconditional Love of your spirit, if you don't have that same unconditional love for self, then you and your guide/s may as well be speaking Jivanese and Crudonese to each other.
B. Not all people are meant to "Hear" or "See" or "Feel" their guide/s. And not all guide/s want to be "Heard" or "Seen" or "Felt". Each person is different and each guide/s is different. Release what you Think you should experience with your guide/s and you may just start experiencing.
C. In the Spirit world, names are not nearly as significant as the energy of spirit. While Guide/s may often provide you with a "name" chances are they used a term or name You feel most comfy with. Guide/s know, people need to learn names are not why a guide/s is here, so they really on a grand scale are not that important.
D. You do not ever have to try to connect with your guide/s, the connection is always open and always there. remember guide/s are not with you to teach you about them, guide/s are with you to teach you about YOU. If you want to tune into your guide/s channel, you have to tune into and not them.
E. Guide/s do not need to be heard by you to be with you in your life. Guide/s operate from the realm of Unconditional Love, therefore they love you for who you are, not what you know or listen to them for.
F. Not all guide/s take the shape of human, demi human(angels an such) animals, or mythical creatures. Some of the best guide/s in the world go unheard ot thought of. Mountains, Streams, Oceans, Rivers, Rocks, Plants Trees can and are Guide/s....break free from preconceived notions of what a guide/s is.
G. Guide/s are not here to make your decisions for you. Guide/s will not tell or show you what to do. What guide/s will do is show you your own heart, spirit and soul, show you towards lessons you need to learn in this life, thus allowing you to make decsions. Guide/s do not see you as you see you, guide/s see you for all that you really are, and they love you for it.
H. Not many people at all have what is known as Life Guide/s. A Life guide is one specific guide that has been with you since your birth in this life, and probably many other of your lives. It takes alot of Blood sweat and tears to EARN a life guide, and very few have one. It is not important how long or short your guide/s is with you, what is important is that you have guide/s with you, and they love you.
I. Guide/s function in a Spirit world. In the spirit world names are not important, so often the name of your guide/s is something your guide/s know you can relate or feel comfy with. This is why readers often can not tell you the name of your guide/s. Do not worry about the name, it is the least important thing a Guide/s will ever do for you.
J. Too many time people can not "connect" because they have hidden or unknown expectations about guide/s. All to often I hear people say " think I feel my guide, but I don't see him/her or hear" If the object is a connection then feeling is connected. If you drop all expectations you will start expereincing.
K. Guide/s speak in one language, Unconditional Love of and for YOU. If you do not unconditionally love yourself, then you are speaking two different languages....thus the difficulties.