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Tips and Tricks : A few tips to keep your kids safe from net perpetrators
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From: MSN Nickname_PurpleGoddess_  (Original Message)Sent: 4/23/2004 6:49 AM
As I have discussed previously in the main board, I posted 3 cyber-related words that are of much importance to all esp. if you have kids or young people in the house that uses the net for their homework. I will review in here those 3 words and then we'll proceed to a few simple solutions to keep your children safe while surfing the net.
 
MOUSETRAPPING: a technique that forces users to remain on the website even if they want to leave by closing the current browser and another one or two or more websites pop-up. This is the most annoying practice as this is going to drive you nuts because it feels like it will never stop and puts a big scare on the user or someone new to the net making them feel like they had been hacked. (I've been a victim a few times when I was new to the cyberworld and was hosting, someone's profile had a website that was actually a joke site that never let me get out of the site until I had to reboot).
 
SPIMMING: mass mailings that are sent as IM (instant messages) to computer users. These can often show links to illegal/underage sites or very explicit porn sites.
 
SPAMMING: mass mailings of ads sent blindly to thousands of email addesses. just like spimming they get people to open the email due to catchy phrases on their subject or they get thru inbox filters by misspelling their subject, etc.
 
Now that we have that out of the way, let's all think of simple ways to keep your child safe:
 
1) I think discipline is one of the best tools to use when we're teaching kids about safety. If we talk to them ahead of time and let them know that there are things that are undesirable from the net and that they should stay away from those. Give them an allotted time in using the computer and make sure that the computer is somewhere in plain view of an adult(s) as this will discourage them to stay within their limits. Even with an adult supervising nearby, make sure that you still check on your child and that they're are not being exposed to those relentless pop-ups with or without porn.
 
2) Check for the computer history files. Our computers have the capability of saving a list of websites that we have visited (1 day or more). You can access the history files by typing c:/windows/history and clicking on the dates will give you an idea what sites your  kids have visited.
 
3) You can also keep your computer locked by adding a password to it known only by you or  your spouse. By doing this, children can only access the computer when the parents are home. Don't let them talk you out of giving them the password for "emergency purposes only".
 
There are several providers that actually have added special features as part of their offer in keeping children's safety while on the net. www.WiredSafety.org pointed out MSN 8.0, AOL, and CyberPatrol to have the most advanced parental control available including options for filtering, monitoring and time-restricted access.
 
MSN 8.0: provides a weekly activity report of where your children have surfed and all their email or IM. Content is filtered based on the settings prescribed by the parents. It also allows parents to restrict time online or shut down access during certain hours (during  the middle of the night, etc.)
 
AOL Guardian: provides the same services like MSN. It can email reports about your children's surfing, email and IM activities, filter out porn sites and restrict access per parents' specifications.
 
CyberPatrol: provides the same options as MSN and AOL for a $39.00 annual fee.
 
I hope that helped a little bit. If you have any other tips about this issue, pls. feel free to post and add it here.


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From: MSN NicknameHostess_RareJewelSent: 4/25/2004 7:58 AM
Thank you, Elsie. I'm just fed up with all the news of kids that had fallen into the wrong hands due to their net usage. I have no kids but I still feel the plights of mothers, fathers, or guardians that have to constantly worry about their children's safety even inside the comfort of their homes. It's a shame that something like the internet  who's been very useful, is also a source of  problems that IT profesionals can't solve. It's a dillema for parents to enforce strict rules to their children when using the net and not be "accused" of invading privacy by their own children. And I agree with you about adults getting caught up in this mess with porn sites. The difference is, adults like us have more understanding (at least we should) about pornography, or other unpleasant things that may pop up in front of you, adults are more responsible. The kids that are continously exposed to such sites will eventually get skewed interpretation on how they view women (this is for the young boys) which, if not corrected early, may have a bad impact in their dealings and relationships during their adult life. Same things applies to young girls as some may feel that they have to do those things to gain material wealth or just as bad as promote low self-esteem among the young girls.

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From: MSN NicknameNotrash1Sent: 7/28/2004 9:45 PM
thank you sooo much for sharing that information, I do have a norton virus thingy which includes a patrol for kids and teens, but its not set for me as im the parent user, and went on a msn.group craft site would you believe, and didnt want to believe my eyes.
 
I didnt see any images - just the names of the ppl on the general board and what the discussions were about were enough, I didnt want this site to be on my puter!!!!!
 
its a disgrace that msn allows this, cause I was a total innocent in finding that site, after all I was looking for craft sites not porn sites!!!!!
 
so every one be careful and take care xx  love sam
 
 

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