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Message 1 of 11 in Discussion

From:

Poshpenny1 (Original Message)

Sent: 11/12/2005 5:10 PM

From:

megukO (Original Message)

Sent: 30/10/2005 09:13

I would like to say THANK you for the friendship

that has been shown in the room...My husband Tony

passed awy on the 11 October, we had been married

just a week over 2 years. I am thankful that I have

kept the computer going...beacuse believe me it has

helped. I feel that with you all....I can be myself.

..have a laugh and enjoy a bit of fun....My husband

wouldnt have cared for me sitting around weeping

and wailing...He would have said MEGIO go take

a happy pill and get on with it. Dont get me wrong

I have my moments and lots of them....but a wise

man was my Husband. I have said to friends ..I dont

know what a Widow is supposed to do I dont know

what is expected of me...I do know that Tony and

myself enjoyed life ...even our last few days

together when we both knew the road was

getting shorter, didnt stop us having a laugh....

I think that was our attraction to each other

that even though life has its ups and downs we

could still manage a smile...I think of my husband

lots and lots of times and I smile..we had a short

time together..but in that time we both made each

other very happy. If I am online chatting away..

.please dont think I am being flippant...I am doing

as my Husband would have wanted...getting

on with life.......and smiling.

Meg xx

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Message 2 of 11 in Discussion

From:

Poshpenny1

Sent: 11/12/2005 5:11 PM

From:

albalady

Sent: 30/10/2005 15:18

Awww Meg sorry to hear of you loss.......your message is so sweet.....it brought tears to my eyes.......it's a shame you only had such a short time together but it was obviously filled with love and happiness and I am sure you have many lovely memories......it must be very hard for you but lovely to see you in room......thats one of the great things about Pennysplace......there is always a friend or friends to talk.....see you soon Meg.....take care and keep smiling for Tony.....huggsss Alba

Message 3 of 11 in Discussion

From:

Poshpenny1

Sent: 11/12/2005 5:11 PM

From:

»°ŦičkÎi§ħČuЬ°«

Sent: 05/11/2005 15:25

dear meg you probably havent heard of me my name is angela (ticklishcub) and (goose)we were so sorry to hear of your loss i dont quite know what to say to you ive never been good at that kind of thing i am married and have a beautiful husband ,but ive kindof been through the same thing but no like you we lost a very dear friend of 16 years through cancer and we had to take care of the usual stuff we felt the same things your feeling now,i know its not the same in relation to you losing your loving husband we were still missing him and i get upset when i look at him in a picture i have of him they do say that time is a good healer maybe true but im not sure, i thnk you are a very brave woman and i admire you for your bravery you truly are a remarkable woman if you should ever feel the need to talk then please feel free to email me if you want my e-mail just leave me a message and ill reply to you even if its just to have a moan or anything take care and we are thinking about you at this time best wishes goose &tick

Message 4 of 11 in Discussion

From:

Poshpenny1

Sent: 11/12/2005 5:12 PM

From:

Penny_farthing3

Sent: 12/11/2005 13:33

Our thoughts and prayers are with you MEg.

We are so grateful that Robin Hood & Members invited you to join us here in PennysPlace because you are not alone..you have friends here and I have always urged anyone who finds themself alone ...through bereavement or whatever the loss..they keep their pc..a pc can be a lifeline and a place where company will be found.

Noone will ever replace the loss of a loved one..but may you find comfort in knowing you will always company and friendship here.

You will come to know that many members are also widowed..

PennysPlace has been a comfort to them.May you,too find comfort here..and a shoulder to cry on or a listening ear.We will always listen.

P.s Meg you are an inspiration to us all.

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Message 5 of 11 in Discussion

Sent: 11/12/2005 8:32 PM

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Message 6 of 11 in Discussion

From:

©Rowan©

Sent: 11/12/2005 8:34 PM

Meg, you never showed your grief in room, I am so sorry at your loss. I lost My hubby of 50 yrs almost 3 yrs ago, next Feb., a much longer time than you and Tony. Meg I know how you feel and there are others in room too. You have a wonderful sense of humour and yes you will have down days I cannot say it will go away, But I can say you will feel better. Take care and Follow what you know Tony would wish.

If you need to vent I have a deaf ear,

Love ,

Selkie.

Message 7 of 11 in Discussion

From:

Angelstar-in-flight

Sent: 11/13/2005 2:37 AM

Meg, i would like to send you my condolences but i would also like to offer you my friendship.

Such a difficult time in your life right now which you are dealing with in your own way.

There are no guidelines on grieving, we all handle it differently. It was 10 after my sister died, before i finally broke down, keeping it all inside. I often wondered if people thought i didnt care because i carried on as normal.

I now know that it doesnt really matter what others think, that is their problem. We know in our hearts how it really is. So we cry, we laugh, we smile, we carry on and we get through each day.

And friendship. Without that it can be harder, and as you have found out, there are so many wonderful people here in Penny's Place. They are true and genuine friends, always there with a listening ear and an open heart, ready to lift you up when you fall.

God bless you Meg ........... and keep smiling

With lots of hugs from Angelstar (Pauline) xxxxx

Message 8 of 11 in Discussion

From:

Angelstar-in-flight

Sent: 11/13/2005 2:40 AM

Oops ..... i forgot to put 10 what didnt i

????????????

It was 10 years after my sister died that i finally broke down.

Silly me

Message 9 of 11 in Discussion

From:

poppy1934

Sent: 11/13/2005 10:17 AM

Hello Meg may I say how wonderful you are. I too am a widow so fully understand. I was married thirty three years. But what I read of in your message was how lucky you were to have had such happiness in those short two years, thats probably more than some have in their entire life time. We all tackle these problems life throws at us in differant ways. The main thing i feel it to keep occupied and talk about about your feelings.At the time you feel you are the only one to experience this and then you realize you aren't. I'm sure your husband would be very proud of you. Take care Love Poppyxxxx

Message 10 of 11 in Discussion

From:

megukO

Sent: 11/13/2005 5:42 PM

THANY you all....I am truly gobsmacked by the kindess you have shown......Right now I have been very busy....maybe thats been a good thing.....Hopefully by the end of next week all that I set out to do will be finished..I will then get in touch with you all by email......A Good friend on here suggested that I speak to someone...I think I will take the advice and do just that....They probably know me better than I know myself...........Once again my thanks to each and every one of you.

Meg xx

Message 11 of 11 in Discussion

From: DustiestPuppy

Sent: 11/13/2005 5:50 PM

Hello Meg. I was in tears reading your message. I am so pleased you and Tony had so much happiness together. I lost my lovely Keith 3 years ago. Without my friends in Penny'sPlace I would have gone nuts. Like you, I try to keep happy for Keith as I know that is what he would want. He always talked about the "memory bank" He said "only you have the key, when you feel low unlock it and take out 1 good memory. All the bad memories, throw them away like a stone"

We have to go on living and the wonderful memories keep us going. Sometimes I feel Keith is still with me as I am sure you can still feel Tony's presence. Their love will be in our hearts and minds as long as we live.

God Bless you Meg....you are a brave lady. Huggz.....Puppy

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