Hi Melanie,
The very best we can do is offer our love and prayers and hope that the best comes from them It seems like the ones who don't need conflict end up with so much doesn't it? We just have to hold tight to our faith and remain strong. I do hope that that comment about not having time was said off handedly out of frustration and not meant. It was a very hurtful thing to say.
Tell your sister to join us so she can talk to us and be part of our family, we love you and will love her too. She does not need to be totally alone, we can be a virtual family, she is welcome here too.
Take care sweeheart, keeping extra special prayers for you and yours.
Love, Summer