aww, Cari..yep it's hard when they start getting older..I think you do enough in the group, you do what you have time for and that's all you can do..I know you're busy, don't feel pressured..we can cover your challanges when you can't do them..we all go through funks..this time of year is hard for me being away from my family, it hits me more around the Holidays.. Luv ya,Peggers |