i read your comments they are so true to home they made me think of my remarriage.My wife is one that has to do things in a certain order,she does not like slowpokes (that's me)taking too much time on doing things.you get the picture; BUT , i would not trade her for anything she has everything in control reminds me if i forget anything and YES waits on me without my asking her too,BUT, she does not like to be waited on herself.there have been times we want to ring each others necks but we dont because we have been together too long to ruin a good thing and it is lonely out there with no one to share time with.almost 25 years now and still counting