Hi Grace, Girlfriend, from one that knows, let me give you just a small piece of advise as I have been down that road several times. Once, years ago had to have professional help and this is what I learned. You have to know and voice what is really bothering you and take charge of it...and don't worry about what anyone else might think. If you feel like telling someone off, do it, if you need to cry, do it.........Do what every makes you feel better. The main thing is to realize what is really bothering you and have someone that you really trust and feel that you can talk to about it. And remember this above anything else.....
If God brings you to it, God will get you through it!
.........Love you girlfriend and we will all be around, please take care. Pat