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| | From: whutina_10 (Original Message) | Sent: 3/1/2007 7:52 PM |
You are what you are and you aint what you aint. Hey! A friend of mines mother died last night, and I feel really bad about it. I can't make myself go to the funeral though, as I have been a little preoccupied with my own demise of late. It's really dragging me down, and about when I think I am getting over it, it seems someone else I know or know of, has passed away. Ladymars, our neighbors younger sister, and many people who have come close to death, but survived it somehow. (My nephew, my sister in law, and her baby) It seems to me that either I am noticing it more, or suddenly "death" is all around me. I often wonder am I next? How do I get out of this deep blue funk? |
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Whutina, I am sorry you have been having a hard time lately. I understand your feelings about funerals. I can't go to funerals unless I absolutely have to. I go out of respect for friends or family when I have to. If you can't handle it or it makes you feel depressed to go,then I think it is your right not to attend. You can pay your respects with a silent Prayer. You know how you feel and as long as you talk to God,He will understand you. I think you are just taking notice to death,since there have been so many bad things happening around you. Sometimes,it hits you real hard when it hits you in the face.(I hope that makes sense?). I don't think you are next,just live every day to the fullest and enjoy every moment you get to spend with your daughter,wife,etc. The smile on your daughters face will make you realize what a wonderful life and family you have,so STOP a moment and look around. You will be surprized how much happiness there is around you. I hope this advice has helped you. Good luck and God Bless. |
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Thanks.......you're right. |
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It's tough though. I know where you are coming from, 10. |
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Ladymars, I am sure you do, thank you. |
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