I am getting married next July. I told my oldest son about it and told him that I want him and his brother and sister to give me away. (this is all in emails) I also told him that I will pay his way here fly him or whatever it takes to get him here. Each time he emails me back its nothing to say about the wedding he talks about everything except that. I emailed him Thurs and asked him if he is happy that I am getting married. He finally answered it but it was I dont care. U do what u want to do and dont stop me from doing what I want to do.
I know he wants me and his dad to get back together and there is no way in hell that that will ever happen. It didnt bother him when his dad got remarried a last yr and divorced within 4 months. Why does it bother him that I am getting married???? How can I talk him into coming down for my wedding and giving me away with the rest of his siblings.
Please help me here.
Thanks
The insane Bride to Be
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Dear Insane Bride. I am sorry that your son feels this way. It may take time for him to let reality set in. He will have to think everything over and he will make the right decision for him. It may not be a decision you like or agree with,but he will have his own reasons for it. He may make the right decision and come give you away.Keep telling him that you want him there and you love him and will always be there for him no matter what. I think he just doesn't like the idea of his mother being with another man,not many boys do. Boys,especially,are picky about their moms. It took my son about 2 years to really connect with my husband and now they are close as ever. I truly hope it all turns out like you want it,but if it doesn't,don't give up hope on your son,one day,he will come around and realize what a great mother and step father he has. Good luck and Congrats on your upcoming wedding.
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