Hi Guys,
I know it's been awhile since I've posted here, sorry guys. In some ways life has been going good!
But, now somethings going on and it's actually bugging me more than I should probably let it.
Something tells me only the managers in here will get this, but if anyone else has any insight, I'll take it.
Let's see how to explain.
I assist on an MSN Group catored to Epilepsy, because I have tonic clonic & absense seizures. The Manger there's son has a way worse case than me. She's a really nice person, but really shy and kinda quiet. I'm more willing to step in and post back to people things like...ummm, be respectful please OR, ummm...think again.
Well, for a good year, we put up with this one member constantly connecting epilepsy to wacky things like cold sores, mercury posioning and all these things that don't cause seizures. This week all hell broke loose when we once again reminded her it was "epilepsy chat" and if she's going to come up with these things, at least have a website to back it up. She threatened to kill the mgr. there, me, herself.
There was some twisted stuff in her words (I should add, she's also autistic).
I feel horrible because soo many people got sick of reading us giving her chance, after chance...while reminding her mutual respect would be nice. So, we gave up and banned her.
I actually wanted to get the poor banned girl to the point of calm, then do a crisis intervention some how to see if she did have thoughts of harming herself ever, and if she was OK. I worried about her. Now, she'll be pissed because she's banned, and I won't get the chance. I feel bad about that.
I mean, I know it's just the internet, but there are people behind the keyboards, and I feel bad for leaving someone with hurt feelings just because people got sick of reading her posts that had nothing to do with seizures and some "bickering" posts that went back & forth, that ultimately forced a decision of 'fine lets ban her', because we're getting sick of this.
I honestly don't know how people manage these MSN groups.
I can only imagine this one. That's the first time we've had to deal with anything like that in the group I assist on, but I feel bad though.
I just wish people would've backed off and let us do more.
How do you get people in an MSN Group to "get over it", and how do I get over it?
I know she'll be pissed, so it's not like I can go back to her.
Any advice?
Godiva Girl