Magic Stitches 
By Tammy Evans 
 
Blessed be your needles three
And blessed be your threading.
Blessed be your loving work
And bless the path your treading.
 
Cross stitching is an ancient art dating back to early Egypt and is one of 
the oldest forms of embroidery. It is the principle needlecraft of the folk 
traditions in much of the Near East, Eastern Europe and Mesopotamia. Each 
tradition boasts a profusion of unique motifs ripe with social and symbolic 
significance.
  
 Cross stitched pictures are made of stitches composed of little x's that 
are placed next to each other to create a pattern something like the mosaic 
of pixels on your computer using a colored thread called floss. The crossed 
stitches take advantage of the weave in specially designed fabrics to help 
regulate the size and shape of each stitch. This makes it easy to create 
neat and even work and is an appropriate and rewarding craft for beginners. 
But don't be deceived, cross stitch can be as complex as a painted picture 
using hundreds of colors or as simple and elegant as a repeated motif of 2 
or 3 stitches.
  
 There are several styles of working a cross stitch design. Modern 
Westerners practice a method called counted cross stitch on the special 
cotton or linen fabrics called, among other things, Evenweave or Aida. 
Counted cross stitch relies on charts or diagrams to instruct you as to what 
stitch to put where. This method is used to create both elaborate pictures 
or simpler designs and motifs.
These patterns can also be used with a product called waste canvas. Waste 
canvas enables you to do even cross-stitches on any type fabric. You simply 
place the waste canvas, which looks like a stiff netting, over your 
readymade garment or fabric and stitch. When the project is finished the 
waste canvas is moistened and pulled out from under your stitches leaving 
the design stitched directly onto your chosen cloth.
  
 Traditional stitchers from the Near East and Eastern Europe follow a 
tradition of direct stitching that incorporates motifs they have been using 
for generations. These motifs often have specific meaning relating to the 
social status of the wearer and/or the purpose of the garment. Sometimes 
they retell well known stories or relate the history of the village, family, 
clan or tribe. They do not use pre-drawn patterns but pass down general 
designs from mother to daughter. Traditional stitchers respond directly to 
each project altering the patterns according to whim, personal tastes, 
project size, or available threads and colors.
  
 Whereas modern stitchers tend to carefully work out the mathematics of 
their design beforehand making sure that motifs are repeated intact and at 
regular intervals, traditional stitchers tend to alter the motif slightly by 
stretching or shrinking the number of stitches, forcing it into the space 
available. This approach gives a lively look to the garment and the 
irregularities never appear too obvious or disruptive to the overall design.
  
 All textile arts have a long history of magical association. The repetitive 
nature of cross stitch in particular lends itself to creating the trance 
states necessary to successful spell casting. Each element of a design 
becomes as much a ritual tool as an atheme or a candle. Just by working the 
pattern intent is clarified and the spell finds its way to the subconscious 
effortlessly.
  
 Most magical systems use some visual protocol in order to place objects 
auspiciously and tap into the subtle workings of the universal psyche. In 
order to treat a cross-stitch project as a magical spell it is important 
that one use care in choosing their design and floss colors. Each aspect of 
the design must be relevant to the desired outcome of your spell and be 
carefully placed in relation to the other parts of the design. The colors 
too must correspond and be relevant to your goal. There are many 
correspondence charts in the abundant legacy of pagan literature that can 
help you choose and place your symbols.
A spell can be made of a single symbol or a group of symbols, pictures or 
words. Design your cross-stitch spell in the same way you would design an 
altar or cast a circle for a traditional spell. Instead of using objects 
like candles, incense and blades use pictures, symbols or words. You don't 
need to always place your design in a circle although you can if you wish. 
Your magic circle of influence can be drawn, implied, or imagined. To imply 
a circle use an embroidery hoop as a frame or draw swirls, arabesques or 
arcs at the perimeters of your design. Articulate the four directions and/or 
imagine a pentagram as a design guide.
  
 Place appropriate items at these points. This is a good blueprint for any 
spell-casting whether your format is a clearing in the woods or a simple 
piece of cloth. Trace your design onto a piece of graph paper or purchase a 
pre-made chart or set of charted motifs and rearrange them according to your 
needs. Choose floss colors that support the goal of your spell. You can 
create two different spells using the same design by just changing the color 
scheme. For example, if you were to stitch the sigil of Venus in pink you 
would have a love spell but if you stitched it in green or gold you would 
have a money spell. It's that simple.
  
 When you are ready to stitch, formally cast your circle over yourself and 
your working area the first time you begin stitching. From that point on you 
can reestablish your circle by simply calling it to mind before you begin 
stitching again or use a circular embroidery hoop to hold your design and 
keep the circle in your conscious by visual means. If you were careful to 
design a thoughtful spell you can proceed by simply stitching with faith. By 
this I mean you can, but don't have to be completely attentive to the 
stitching process at all points. Your familiarity with the design's intent 
and the relaxing, trance like state that stitching conjures are enough to 
plant the spell into your subconscious. Many of us who stitch or do other 
forms of needlecraft do so while chatting with our children, watching TV or 
simply being with our family and friends. This is a most subversive style of 
witchcraft whose charm and humor I find irresistible. To all the world you 
are just stitching a pretty design on your collar but you know that the 
rowan leaf motif is protective and is analogous to carrying your wand with 
you everywhere you go!
When you are finished stitching your spell you can display it, give it 
away, or use it on your altar. I recommend that if you display it you change 
its position in the house with the seasons. I say this because when we see 
something everyday we tend to become blind to it after a while. Changing its 
position refreshes your intent and often gives you a new perspective on the 
issues involved as well as on the picture itself.
  
 Many magical practitioners recommend completely forgetting about a spell 
after you have cast it. This is often good advice, as obsessing on any issue 
is obstructive and unhealthy. However certain types of spells require deep 
contemplation and time to work through the surface issues to come to a clear 
realization of the core issue that you are really interested in exploring. I 
recommend taking all the time you need with your spells. Allow them to 
evolve and change you on a fundamental level. Stitch spells are made for 
just that purpose. The changes you come to through these techniques are long 
lasting and fundamental to your growth in awareness. Let your collection of 
stitch-work to be like your book of shadows or a carefully cultivated garden, 
recording your progress as well as your path. The magic lives in the 
stitching and the stitch-work and in the space that lies between.