How To Pass The Physical Attraction Test
Let's start at square one. Okay, so you're a single guy and you want to get yourself a girlfriend. The first thing you have to do is put yourself in an environment where you can meet single, available women.
Once you find a place to meet women where you feel comfortable, whether it's a ballroom dancing class or a biker bar, you should approach and strike up a conversation with as many different women as you can. Some of them may be 6s, some of them may be 10s, but you should talk to all of them. Why? Because you never know who you're going to click with. To you Psych majors: chemistry is everything.
Go for all the women in the room............
Widen Your Peripheral Vision
Don't fixate on only the most beautiful women. You may meet a 6 ½ who has a 10+ personality, and wind up having an incredibly wonderful committed relationship with her. Remember, the Reality Factor [see reality for what it is while dating and not follow your wants or wishes] says that the lower a girl's rating on the beauty scale, the higher her level of giving, sweetness and flexibility usually tends to be.
You should not to be intimidated in any way by the 10s. It's bad policy to look at a drop-dead gorgeous woman and tell yourself that she's out of your league. You never can tell what kind of guy she may find attractive.
You may think of yourself as a 6, but she might see you as a 9 because there's some quirky thing about you that just rings her bell. Good looks are subjective. How many times have you seen a strikingly gorgeous woman with a guy who ain't no big deal in the looks department?
You Don't Need to be Brad Pitt
There's another reason to always pitch whatever woman you're interested in, including the 10s. It could turn out that you just barely pass the physical, but you do squeak by. Once you do, you can slowly but surely raise her Interest Level [degree of love]. It'll give you a huge advantage over the hunky pretty boy who comes on too heavy, too quickly and that can't keep his hands off a woman.
You never know whether you're going to pass the physical with any chick, a 5 or a 10, until you check it out. Every woman is different; every single one is unique. Lisa likes tall, thin blonde guys, but her twin sister, Liza, will date only stocky Latin men. Go figure.
Also, remember that the only reason you're pitching so many different women is so you can find the one for you. All you need is one. You only need to keep greeting and meeting new women until you find Miss Right (and get past two months with her.)
Remember guys, you never know who's going to like you until you check it out.
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