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General : Has anyone seen The Old Coot?  
     
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From: MSN Nickname_Xer  (Original Message)Sent: 12/17/2008 8:25 PM
He hasn't posted in a week, and I don't recall him mentioning going somewhere. Is my memory slipping again?


Going for Cardio-Therapy now. Will be back this afternoon. Everyone be well.


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From: MSN NicknameneverCominHomeSent: 12/17/2008 8:30 PM
You know, as I posted this morning, I thought the same thing...that I hadn't seen him around in a while.  I'm going to go do some e-pestering and see if I can find our Dear Cooter!!! 

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From: Old CootSent: 12/17/2008 10:11 PM
Thanks friend Xer for the concern. Jen caught up with me and mentioned your post.

Flora and I have been "out of this world" busy for the past couple of weeks doing fun stuff. One high point was our visitors from Seattle. Old work and party friends. They came with their 20 something son who we watched grow up. Neat young man. (he was impressed with my computer room -- hoho)

Ladies all, I sprung a few bucks on Flora - sic Coco stuff...haha She was impressed and loved it. Wouldn't wait til Christmas before opening the thingy.

oc...love you all

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From: The GryphonSent: 12/17/2008 10:28 PM
Ha!   Bless your heart, Coot!   Flora is a very lucky woman, indeed!    

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From: MSN Nickname_XerSent: 12/18/2008 1:58 AM
Jen, thanks for clubbing Coot and dragging him back by his long locks.

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From: MSN Nickname_XerSent: 12/18/2008 2:13 AM
Coot, thanks for checking back in. Allow me to explain something? About a week after my kid brother called me the last time, he was found dead in his little house. He had already been dead so long they couldn't say when he had passed away, and he was so decomposed (it was summer in Portland) the county coroner said they couldn't even do an autopsy. After someone our age hasn't checked in for more than 4-5 days I began to get uncomfortable. After 7 days I flat out start worrying.

I realize it irritates some of my online friends when I worry about them, but after the way I lost my baby brother, I simply can't help it.

At least I'm not as concerned about you as about some of our single friends. I really do hope Flora would contact us if you become incapacitated? But, I'd hope everyone here realizes we all care about each other and become concerned when folks don't check in for a while.

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Fair Warning: At the end of this year, I am going to India for three weeks. It is not always possible there to secure an online connection, so I am warning you all to not worry if I can't check in while there, or if my checkins are infrequent. My wife has instructions to contact you if it medically becomes such that I cannot contact you for myself.

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From: Old CootSent: 12/18/2008 9:57 AM
"long locks"

haha my longest is maybe 1/2 inch.......

Yep out here in this "old people" enclave, we keep pretty close tabs on one another and esp so close by neighbors. Keeping tabs is one of the un-reported good things about this great country of ours.

Have an enjoyable trip to India. In all of my travels, I never got to set foot on that neat land.

oc...Gryp, I am the lucky one in this household. yep

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From: MSN Nickname_XerSent: 12/18/2008 9:52 PM
I am the lucky one in this household. yep


My friend, I can so relate to that!

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From: MSN Nickname_XerSent: 12/18/2008 10:24 PM
Just wanted to say, women who know the wife and I, have been telling her for decades, and still do, how lucky she is to have me.

They don't know the half of it. Yes, I'm very supportive of my wife and I have no problems with her being in the spotlight rather than me. It is true she would not be who/where she is today had she never met me. I'll concede that, but it's also true I would not be who/where I am today either.

Thanks to her I will be a footnote in a couple of focused history books after I die. Without her, I probably wouldn't even be mentioned in the obits! She is already mentioned in a couple books in one field, magazine articles--not to mention in dozens and dozens of places online, and she's referenced in books of another field!

Let's not forget, if she hadn't been there to stop my leaving this earth a year and half back, I'd be gone now, I'd be gone... If it weren't for her I'd never have had Wildfire. Bless her heart for that! If it weren't for her I'd eat food that would kill me. Heck, if it weren't for her I'd starve! When she doesn't feed me I simply forget to eat, kid you not.

When we started out I was supportive of her career, thinking later she would be supportive of mine, but hers took a lot of work on both our parts, over a long period of time, and before long I became a recruit. My own career never took off. But, I do not resent it!

The truth is we are and have always been a team, but because of her letters she gets the official credit. Heck, aiming the spotlight is reward enough for me. People who actually know us are aware my contributions. We have had a fantastic life together, and I wouldn't change it if I could. On top of that, the ride's not even over yet. <grin>

It seems a real pity to me, so many men are such selfish chumps they can't support their wife's aspirations that so many women think my wife is the lucky one. Hah!!! I'm the lucky one.

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