Gryph, Never, Xer, thank you for your kindness, offer, suggestions, and prayers. Who ever says friendships over the next aren't real fools himself.
My time away is not paid, so I will need to do something else. A total change of pace from teaching, as I see it.
I am in counseling, to help me understand and shed these burdens and demons that have bothered me for a while now, and just recently piled up to the point where they affect judgement, and health. Gryph, when my "house" is in order, you can expect a knock at the door. But NOT while I am not on my two feet!
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Now as for the move, we are not Mozarts, and in spite of my clouded and faulty judgement, even I can see procrastination to the last minute is unwise. For one thing, there are members who post with such infrequency, that they could be dropped entirely, without meaning, if the house is moved in one day, or even in one week.
Jen, can we not set up the cafe at Aimoo, and simply put xer in charge when he gets back, and gets there? If we can do that, I would recommend it.