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THANK YOU LADIES JOLENE, I SURE HOPE YOU ARE FEELING BETTER VERY SOON I HAVE AN IDEA OF WHAT YOU ARE GOING THRU B/C I'M STILL TRYING TO KICK THIS SINUS INFECTION. DOC GAVE ME STRONGER ANITBIOTICS BUT STILL NOT HELPING. THE PAST TWO DAYS KICKED MY BUTT. WE CLEANED WITH NO HEAT,ELECTRIC OR WATER, BUT WE DID IT.(HE FILLED US UP BUCKETS OF WATER AND RAN THE POWER CORDS FOR ELECTRIC). WE ARE DONE AND I AM REALLY HURTING. IT IS A 3 BEDROOM 2 BATH. WE SCRUBBED EVERYTHING FROM CIELINGS,WALLS, ETC. I NORMALLY DON'T TAKE MY MEDS(PAIN /RELAXERS) BUT I DID TONIGHT AND THEY KNOCK ME OUT, I'M READY FOR BED. TOMORROW I WILL CLEAN MY PLACE(HOPEFULLY LOL). MY AUNT JUST CALLED ME........NOW MY UNCLE WALKED BEHIND ME THE PAST TWO DAYS, DOING SOME THINGS OVER THAT I HAD DONE AND SORT OF ACTING LIKE I WASN'T DOING A GOOD ENOUGH JOB(HE IS VERY PICKY, WHICH I ALREADY KNEW SO THAT DIDN'T BOTHER ME FOR THE MOST PART). SHE JUST TOLD ME THAT HE CALLED HER SAYING THAT I DID THE MOST WORK. I SAID UMM OK. SHE SAID WELL THAT WAS A COMPLIMENT. I SAID OH THANK YOU LOL. I HOPE EVERYONE HAS A GOOD NIGHT   HUGS~T |
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I'VE BEEN TAKING MY TIME DOING THINGS TODAY, NOW I'M GETTING READY TO START LAUNDRY(I FEEL LIKE I COULD FALL ASLEEP AT ANY MINUTE ). CODY'S FRIEND CAME OVER TIL HIS DAD CAN GET HIM AT 4:30P. KAILEY HAS BB PRACTICE TIL 5P. THEN THEY GO TO FUN NIGHT AT THE CHURCH FROM 6:30P TO 8:30P. TOMORROW KAILEY'S GAME STARTS AT 9A., THEN AFTER THAT I GUESS WE ARE GOING TO ERIE TO SEE MY MIL. RANDY ASKED IF HE COULD TAKE ME AND MY KIDS B/C IT CAME BACK THAT SHE DOES HAVE TUMORS/ COLAN CANCER. AND HE WANTS THEM TO SEE HER BEFORE SHE LOSES HER HAIR AND GETS REAL SICK. I KNOW THIS SOUNDS MEAN BUT I WANTED SO BADLY TO SAY NO. THE LAST TIME SHE EVEN CALLED TO TALK WITH MY KIDS WAS AT EASTER, SHE HAS HARDLY EVER BOTHERED WITH THEM. BUT SHE WAS HERE TWO WEEKS AGO(LAST TIME HERE) AND WAS FIVE MINUTES AWAY AT HER DAUGHTERS. AND I FEEL THE ONLY REASON HE ASKED ME IS B/C I TOLD HIM ON TUESDAY THAT I AM CALLING MY CASEWORKER TO FIND OUT PROGRAMS THAT HELP WOMEN WITH DIVORCE. AND MY KIDS WERE TELLING HIM WHAT THEY HAVE BEEN DOING, SO NOW HE KNOWS THAT WE AREN'T JUST SITTING AT HOME AND I'M GUESSING THAT IS BOTHERING HIM. ALL OF A SUDDEN HE IS CALLING EVERY DAY AGAIN AND BEING VERY NICE, WANTING TO KNOW WHEN KAILEYS GAME IS AND WHEN CAN HE COME SEE OUR KIDS ETC. HE WAS STILL BEING NICE EVEN THO I WAS BEING SORT OF SNOTTY. OH WELL, I WILL GET THRU THIS WEEKEND ONE WAY OR ANOTHER HOPE FOR THE BEST AND EXPECT THE WORSE RIGHT? LOL (I HAVE TO LAUGH SO I DON'T CRY) I HOPE EVERYONE HAS A NICE DAY AND A VERY NICE WEEKEND HUGS~T |
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I'm sorry, I realize that sounded mean of me to say, especially if you don't know my situation. As far as I know we are still going and I'm going to try to make the best of it. He is leaving me alone tonight, I'm sure b/c it's friday so he has plans. If some thing happens to my MIL then my children will have lost two grandmothers (one greatgrandmother) in less than a year. All they will have left is my mother and his step dad. Ok, I'm not going to think about this anymore right now. I'm gonna get my kids in the shower and maybe watch a movie with them. It is getting late tho and we have to get up early. Hope everyone has a good night Hugs~T |
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Good Saturday morning, friends! It will be a pretty day in Colorado and I hope to at least sit outside some. My cold has improved some so I have to be careful to not overdo it today. Laundry awaits me as well as picking up a few things at the grocery store. It felt like heaven to not have my alarm going off this morning. I have been dragging my way thru work most of the week. Tammy, I didn't take anything that you said as sounding mean. You have a difficult family situation and I would expect that you would have feelings about that. My daughters have grandparents that have not seen them for over 30 years and when my ex MIL passed away about six months ago, THEY were blamed for not being there for her. It is so hard on everyone when these situations flare up. I know that you are always working to do the very best for your children. I will say a prayer, however, that your time with Randy is limited and doesn't impact you too negatively. God bless you all! Jolene |
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Hello to all of my sweet and precious friends today. I hope you all are having a good day. I am making it but with much pain right now from my fibromyalgia flare up. I have taken my celebrex but it is not helping me right now. Tammy sounds like you really worked so hard on your Uncles place and I hope you are feeling better now and got some rest. Tammy I pray that if you have to be around Randy that God will give you the strength and courage you need during this time and keep you safe and well. Tammy we all have family members who we do not understand why they act and behave the way they do. All we can do is give our love and be kind and pray for them. We have to be examples of Jesus love in us and not be like those who do not know of his love. Tammy never be ashame or embarrass to say or talk about your family for we all have been through some sort of trials with our own families. Tammy you take care and just be cautious as to what motives Randy is up to which I know you already know. I am sending my love, hugs and prayers to you Tammy and your children and that God will protect you all and help you know exactly how to handle Randy. I know it is so hard Tammy but I can read in your posts you are making so much headway and getting on with your life and I pray that Randy will not fool you anymore, and only set you back for more pain and tears. I know how much you love him and my heart breaks for you and only you Tammy know what you can live with and what you can't. I pray that Randy will please change and treat you with respect and love and not only use you, and be good to you and your kids and he will be a man of God and truth. Tammy if you can just remember all of the other times he lied to you and made you feel so special until he had his way with you and then bang bang his does it again makes you feel awful and you hate that you failed to his games again and you are in a setback all over again. Tammy you really need to read on this one group I went to to just to read about Narcissistic personalities, because men who are only into themselves have many of these straits. Here is the group Tammy look for yourself...ok.... NARCISSISTIC_PERSONALITY_DISORDER. Right now it is a MSN group ok. I think it will help you to see what other women have to say about these kind of men and how they almost killed them in the relationship trying to hold on to the man they fail in love with but he changed once he had them. Very sad indeed. Sending my love, hugs and prayers to all of you. Have a good weekend. MaggieSunshine |
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Hello Ladies I hope each of you had a very nice day today. I haven't really done anything the past two days, just being lazy for the most part. Saturday went fine. He was descent and he family treated me like I was still part of the family. His mother kept asking me to do a shot with her so I finally gave in a did one(it was just her and I that did that shot together). She toasted to always being family, which made me feel good. His grandmother was even nice to me and that lady is mean lol. She even gave me a hug good bye, first time in 11 yrs. His uncle's girlfriend taught us a new word "Bikerdized". She explained that's when you get all dressed in your leather, etc to go riding the Harley. LOL Randy knew I was nervous, he made a comment about me chain smoking when we got close. His mother must have known too b/c she was trying to hand me a beer after a few minutes of being there and she knows that I don't drink beer. It turned out to be a nice time. I'm glad that we went. I'm still torn tho, my kids still don't know that she is sick and I'm trying to find a way to tell them. I know they are going to take it hard. When my grandmother passed, Kailey wouldn't stop crying and Cody was literally(sp) so upset he was sick(fever, throwing up) til I came home from the funural then he was fine. I still can't figure that one out. So I'm really nervous to tell them about their mama. I know I need to tell them, I'm just not sure when......sooner or wait to see what happens. If by some miracle she does make it thru this and goes into remission, than I've upset my kids for nothing. I don't know what to do. Randy wants us to wait but everyone else knows, including the other kids(even tho mine are the youngest). I need to help Kailey with home work and get them in bed. I hope everyone has a good night Love You ~ Hugs~T Brenda, Jolene and Maggie, how are you feeling? I hope today was/is a better day for you |
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Blessings everyone Just checking in before I head off to bed. It's only Monday and I am wondering how I am going to get thru this week. My cold is better but the fatigue is worse. Kind of gets discouraging how one day I feel better and then I am down for three and so on. Anyway, I hope that you are all doing ok tonight. Tammy, I'm glad your day went better that you thought it might. You deserve to be treated decently at all times! Hugs, Jolene |
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Hello to all of my dear and sweet friends. Just wanted to say I am thinking of you all and am praying your day is much better then mine. I am in terrible pain and hurt all over but wanted to say hello. Please keep me in your prayers. Thank you! Sending my love, hugs and prayers. Love MaggieSunshine |
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| | From:  AuntyJ9 | Sent: 10/31/2008 10:19 AM |
Hello friends , I am so sorry to hear of all the problems pain and worries you have all had. I hope you are all feeling better than you have been and that things will improve for you all.. I have also been having bad flare ups with Fibro since I got back from, My holiday in Spain . I am sure the damp cold weather we are having here in UK is not helping me much either. I have been keeping you all in my prayers and hoping that you all get some respite . I am going to have a look at the boards and catch up with some posting .I have only been able to sit at comp for short periods of time .so I do what I can when I am able to . I am also having lots of rest periods as well . God bless you all .Take care . Hugs Jan {Aunty J} |
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I hope everyone is doing fine and having a nice weekend. Trick or treat went alright last night. Kailey was a pirate and Cody was supposed to be a dead skate boarder punk. All we did was spike his hair and spray paint blue and purple in it. He wouldn't paint his face. Kailey and her team lost their play off game by one point, so they came in second. They all did really good and we had a nice time at the awards party(I really liked the slide show). I'm feel really tired and I'm starting to get a headache so I might lay down for alittle bit. The boys are on the game so the girls will probably get on here(altho it is the boy's turn). I will check in later. Thinking of youHugs~T |
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| | | From: AuntyJ9 | Sent: 11/2/2008 11:12 PM |
I Hope everyone is Doing Ok and that you all have a good November . Hugs Aunty J |
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Hi everyone, Haven't checked in for a little while. Seems some nights I am just too tired to even type. I do keep you all in my prayers and have usually read the "latest" news. I'm not doing the time change well at all. Went to the zoo today to get some outside sunlight time in. That was fun but our zoo is a mountain zoo and while it is wonderful, it is an all day climb to see the exhibits. I'm feeling it tonight. Sometimes its all just a trade off. Enough of my whining. God bless you all! Jolene |
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It has been raining...........yeah! Mostly cloudy now. I went an voted. Nice Fall day to take a short walk. Have a good day. |
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