Maybe if I started to vent, today won't turn out as bad as I'm expected it to be. My grandmother didn't want any of her brothers or sisters to know that she was in the hospital or at the funural. Last night my aunt n mother called and talked to two of them a brother and sister. They are upset b/c my grandmother didn't want them to know and we listened and didnt' tell anyone. So who knows if they will be spiteful and show up any how today. (They were really mean to grandma the last few years). She always said"if they can't speak to me and be civil while I'm alive they don't need to act like they care when I die". So we are honoring her wishes. I just hope none of them start any trouble. My nephew turned 18 in sept, Zak just turned 18 on the 27 and my cousin will be 18 in a few days........these are the pallbearers(sp). If I remember correctly this is the first funural that they are going to and it is for their grandma/greatgma. I know they will do well, I'm just nervous. And my sister was to bring my kids home this morning so I can get them ready and now she just called and said just bring them clothes they can change there . I don't even know if they got a shower. I guess, I only have to worry about a ride for me now. Thank you for letting me vent.........Hugs~T |
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