Hello Dafferdill,
You say your Not sure I am making the right choice.....
I agree with what Brenda has said in her post to you.
You are a sensible lady and you did make the correct choices in my opinion .
You still may be .BUT slowly slowly.You know what you have to do. No matter what anybody else says .
Its true what they say 'LOVE HURTS '. Especially if something like this happens.
Whatever route you take , make sure your keep your self respect and under NO circumstances let him hurt you again ....
I wish you all the very best .I hope things will go the way you want them to .
Take care. You know where we are anytime you need us.
Hugs Aunty J (Jan)