I just wanted to thank everyone from chat last night I was able to go home with a clear head, and do what I set out to do. We made a HUGE progress last night it took a few times of gettin ghim to come to me and praising him etc. finally at one point he was laying there at the foot of the couch and the little black cat his biggest tormenter walked right infront of him stopped on the coffee table as if taunting him like come and get me. He looked at her and looked at me he was still very calm not alert and stalking he was still laying down so I gave him tons of praise and love and the cat was able to walk away through the living room with out a problem he did chase one this morning but I was not in the room so there was no way to correct (I woke up late and was running around like a chicken with my head cut off) but the fact that he recognized what I wanted from him was huge.