JJ decided he wanted to be a couple again.  No marriage, no living together, but be a couple....... b/f g/f.

 

We went out this weekend, had a FABULOUS time.  Had dinner with step daughter and her b/f Friday night, went to the bar on Saturday night and had a blast. 

 

Day before Valentines day, I found a g-string hidden in his basket at the foot of his bed.  He claims he has no idea where they came from or how they got there.  I let that one slide.

 

Saturday night, when we got home from the bar, we were "having a bit of fun" and someone started pounding on the door at 3:30 am !!!!!  He went and peeked out the window, said it was some chick, but he doesnt' know who she is.  He then went and stood in the bathroom like he was hiding, was acting nervous.  She pounded on the door 5 different times before she finally left. 

 

He couldn't get back in the mood, so we went back to sleep.

 

So much for being a couple!  I find dirty g-string in his apt just a few weeks ago, and now that I spent the night ( he picked me up, so my vehicle wasn't there for anyone to know he had company ) he has women knocking at his door in the middle of the night?????

 

I have enough female health problems, without worrying about what he may be carrying!!!!  I sent him a nasty email and told him never to contact me again, taht I don't want to hear any more excuses, or "I dont' know's" or anything.  I can't trust him, he has given me NO reason to trust him, so I'm back to man hating mode, and will probably stay that way for LIFE!

 

btw...... Sunday night, when he brought me and Matt back home ( Matt had been staying at friend's all weekend ) JJ fell asleep on the couch.  He lives 25 miles from here, so I told him just go to bed in my room.  He refused, saying he didnt' bring his uniform, so HAS to go home.  ( 3rd weekend in a row that I have asked him to stay and he's REFUSED! )  I have stayed at his place plenty, but he WON'T stay here, even tho I'm his g/f ???????  WHAT GIVES?

 

Well, I think we all know the answer to THAT one!