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From: MSN Nicknamenancy_pea  (Original Message)Sent: 12/27/2005 8:28 AM
 
sorry to shout. but my daughter took a pregnancy test christmas morning and it was POSITIVE! we are so excited and happy!
 
no she isn't getting married. her fiance broke up w/her before either of them knew she was pregnant. he got cold feet and she cannot trust him to not do it again. she wants somebody responsible. she will tell him in person if he will stop being a coward long enuff to talk to her. but if not then the district attorney will be glad to do the job for her.
 
also his parents really don't want to give him up. so, they probably wont believe anything short of a DNA test and will probly still think she did it to trap him.
 
anyway, aside from that, we are just bursting w/joy and will take care of my daughter and her new baby for as long as she wants us too.
 
hugs and merry christmas to all!
 
nancy in reno


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From: ReneSent: 12/27/2005 4:24 PM
Wow !    Congratulations !
 
A wee little bundle of joy entering your lives !  I can just imagine your anticipation of this blessed event!
 
As to the fiance, all I can say is better to find out how things really are between he & his family now !  I just wish my own dgtr had opened her eyes before she got so involved with her husb & his mother - believe me!  It would have spared us all a good many years of pain & heartbreak (and yes they are still together & that mother still dominates their lives, etc - uuuggghhh ).
 
Hugs to you & a very Happy New Year
 

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From: MSN Nicknamenancy_peaSent: 12/28/2005 6:57 AM
she went to the dr today to get a pregnancy test and that one came out positive also. so we went to WIC and then welfare so she could get medicaid and anything else she is eligible for. (they have all the biological fathers info for the DA's office, so he WILL be contacted).
 
then b/c hil is a kind, considerate and caring person, she had me take her up to john's parents house (where he lives) and she showed him the proof on the paper. he hugged her and said congrats (like it was somebody elses baby, it probably hadnt sunk in) and said he would get a job and do his duty for the baby. she said she would give him open visitation and everything.
 
he still blamed me for their breaking up and said it was still pretty much me or him. hil said if he really loved her that he would get over me and that he needed to grow up. but by then it would be too late.
 
anyway, not 30mins later he called me on my cell phone. he talked to hil for a couple of minutes saying he wanted a blood pregnancy test. then he let his best friend (a very rude and obnoxious but-in-sky) pretend to be him. next thing we know he is saying hil is some kind of whore who is sleeping w/a bunch of guys and then threatened her if the baby wasn't his.
 
i yelled "are you threatening my daughter?" into the phone and he suddenly changed his tune to "i will sue you if it turns out the baby isnt mine!" hil knew it wasnt john by then b/c his voice was changing as he got rougher and rougher and john doesnt have the guts to talk like that. also i doubt he ok'd even half of what nate said. but he is just as bad b/c he didnt stop him. i put a stop to the convo by listening to 2 words he had to say and knew it was nate. i then said this convo is at an end and nate better never call here again. then i hung up.
 
havent heard a darn thing since. his loss. hil is pissed. jer is pissed. all i can say is that nate better stay away from my daughter. hil was shocked that john still hadnt grown up enuff to do his own talking. well, when the DA gets a hold of him he will take it seriously. but hil will not get a DNA test till after the baby is born b/c its too dangerous.
 
well, thats all the news fit to print!
 
nancy in reno

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From: ReneSent: 12/28/2005 3:35 PM
Good Heavens Nancy!  Who needs that kind of drama in their lives?  If John keeps company with someone like that, then she is very fortunate to have the relationship end now.  You all deserve a much more peaceful & balanced life than that !   As hurtful and disappointing as his departure is, when it seemed like such a warm happy relationship, the "dark side" emerged in time to spare you, Hil & Jer an awful lot more heart ache.   I am so very sorry, tho, that this has happened. My heart goes out to you!
 
 

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