Or coins or ringing a phone or anything for that matter?

 

I know that when your relatives have crossed over, they will give you signs that they're visiting.

 

We find coins, pretty certain it's my grandfather. Usually pennies. LOL, thanks, Pop. It's possible my grandmother does this, too, but I think she comes in scent form. Shortly after she had died, I smelled her perfume waft past me as a door blew open (from a breeze outside), so I'm convinced that's her "sign". There was also a long period where the doorbell would ring in the middle of the night, but no one would be there (my mom sleeps right by the front door, so she knows no one was out there). That could be either of them or both of them.

 

My father...lol, shortly after he died, my mother would be awakened during the night by very loud banging from inside the walls. She said it sounded just evil. I said "that's dad." She said no, it couldn't be, it just creeped her out too much. Um yeah, mom...that would be dad. With me, he just tugs on my hair.

 

Shortly after my step-father died, the lights in the kitchen flickered. My mom had just commented on how he would change the florescent lights for her and she wondered who would do that once he was gone. (Hello? Am I without hands? ...anyway...) Those lights NEVER flicker. They did then. He was saying, hey I'm here...

 

Since my ex-husband died, I keep finding feathers. I know they're feathers from my pillow or comforter or something, but the thing is....why now all of a sudden am I finding one here or there, sometimes in a place it doesn't belong...and then I won't for a while...and then they're there again. Nothing else changes. So anyway, I'm pretty sure that's him.

 

But I was wondering what - if anything - these things mean. Like, why coins - is that just because Pop was frugal, made a good living....I don't know? My grandmother's scent....well, she was always all about her perfumes and girlie stuff.

 

All these things make sense, really. But...the feathers....what does that have to do with Rick? Why wouldn't I like hear a guitar string or something like that? I've been trying to figure this out with no luck.

 

Is there any specific symbolism that anyone knows of that's applicable to these various things (money, scent, electricity, noise/hair tugging (lol), feathers...)? I've tried doing a search and I'm coming up completely empty here....