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General : Advice for a non-drinking alcoholic on quitting View All Messages
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From: MSN NicknameJoeJFree-Gold-  in response to Message 1Sent: 12/15/2005 2:53 PM
Lucinda,
 
First off - CONGRATULATIONS to YOU for deciding to get rid of cigarettes & nicotine!!  You are still in your first month and sound like you are gaining confidence every day!  Horray!  We would be pleased and honored if you would consider joining a great group of quitters at the FreedomFromTobaccoQuitSmokingNow forum.
 
I decided to write to you because I had a similar situation.  Mom & Dad both smokers, Mom quit first (10 years an ex-smoker before she passed) Dad still smoked.  When I quit last January I could tell my Dad was both intrigued about how I had quit after 40 years and embarassed that he still smoked when we were together.  I explained how I approached my 'smoking problem' not as quitting smoking but as overcoming an addiction to nicotine.  Cigarettes are not the issue, nicotine in our blood and brain is the issue.
 
I wrote this post at Freedom in June about my Dad -  Great News.
 
Lucinda, it never is too late, we are never too old to Decide for Ourselves that we, not nicotine, control our lives.  As Dad so typically said - You Just Gotta Wanna and NTAP!
 
Within the month I will be one-year quit and on the 20th my dad Al will be Nicotine Free and healing for 6 Months!  You and your Dad can join us in knowing that by removing nicotine you can make living the rest of your lives the best of your lives!
 
JoeJ Free a nicotine addict, a 40 year smoker and now an ex-smoker for 11 months, 4 days, 23 hours, 26 minutes and 13 seconds (338 days).
I've not had to buy & consume 8474 Nicotine delivery sticks, and saved $1,697.23.
I've reclaimed 29 days, 10 hours and 12 minutes to live as I Choose, that's the best part of my gift to me.

Alfred J a 75 year+ nicotine addict and now an ex-smoker for 5 months, 24 days, 21 hours, 41 minutes and 55 seconds (177 days).
Not had to buy & consume 1423 Nicotine delivery sticks, and saved $286.74.
Reclaimed 4 days, 22 hours and 36 minutes to live as I Choose.