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From: Joel  in response to Message 1Sent: 1/30/2006 3:56 PM
Joel,
 
I have read most everything on your website in the last 3-1/2 weeks.  As of Thursday, January 26, at 10:00 pm, I am an ex-smoker.  Today is day 4 of my smoke-free life.
 
This has not been easy, and I continue to struggle, but I owe myself at least a pat on the back for making it this far.  You are right.  I can never take another puff!  Not one.  I know that in prior quit attempts that was my downfall.  I'd barely make it a day, and refused to deny the cravings any longer and went back to smoking in full force.
 
Not this time.  I am not looking for comfort to happen overnight anymore.  Anything worth doing takes time.  One puff will send me right back.  I've lasted this long, I can make it further.  I continue to remind myself that I do not want to go through that first 72 hours again!!!  And when a craving strikes, I remind myself, "Three minutes...three minutes...three minutes!"  Then it passes.
 
Your website has been a godsend.  And I continue to read a little more every day, and re-read the articles that deal with my struggles.
 
A smoke-free life is sooooo much better.  I can see that now.  Thank you again for having this site to come to.  I will make it through this by:
 
Never taking another puff...
Taking it one day at a time...
 
Very truly yours,
Kim