{{{{{{{{{{{{{{{{{{{{ gem & son }}}}}}}}}}}}}}}}}}}}}} many thoughts and prayers are headed your way. I am well aware of son's with addictions....my youngest is addicted to 'crack' .....I can wish you a 'calm' heart, and mind....and the understanding that its HIS problem and only HE (and his higher power) can solve it.....You can be his stalwart strength and offer LOVE when he will accept it.
My heart breaks for you dear one.....knowing how hard this is for you !!!