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hi everyone. It's been a long time. I have been too heart broken to even post. My husband surprised me with Tuki at X-mas 12 years ago. Along the way I was given Guffy, had him for three years. He is 20 years old, and had just loved his life with me. His previous owner, (who raised him from a chick) could'nt get along with him. I loved him, and he loved me too. My point is this: this summer my husband did nothing but complain about the birds, how much time i spent with them etc. I agreed, ( very reluctantly) to give them to my friend. It was just like giving away my kids. 6 months and I still can't get through a day. I live in Illinois, and have just found out they gave Guffy to someone who then moved to Florida with him. I am hoping, and I know this is a long shot, but maybe someone has heard about Guffy, and might let me know if he's ok. Tuki is still with my friend? and they tell me she's ok, but I don't know. I am 55 years old, married for 35 years, not working. I have considered divorce, trying to find a way to support myself, and get my birds back somehow. That too is a pipe dream. Who's going to hire someone my age with no skills. Worst thing is I love my husband, he can't help his gender. Anyhow if anyone knows about Guffy please, please let me know. Slave no more. |
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hey Lisa thanks for your post. I hope your hubby listened with both ears. I believe in moving on, and the health of letting go, but this time I can't seem to get there. You tell your husband for me it's yes, that important. Enjoy yours, and remind the husband it's sexy to appreciate anothers passions. I'm sure there are lots of people just like me who've had to endure this. Our birds are demanding, and the benefits are endless. I can honestly say my guys made me laugh every single day. Nothing else ddoes that for me. |
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