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Lovebirds : Male or female?
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From: MSN NicknameFireAngel_2010  (Original Message)Sent: 7/27/2006 6:02 AM
Hi all I'm new around here and as of yet, do not have a bird. In fact, I'm still in the research stage and that is what this question is mainly about. Now, I understand that lovies are not sexually dimorphic, and that I may not be able to tell when I actually do go to purchase my lovie, but I was wondering on your guys' opinions on having males versus females as a companion bird.

At first, I was set on trying to get a male, because I had heard of the females being rather witchy when they decide it's time to lay eggs. I haven't heard nearly as many stories of males getting periodically hormonal, though I suppose it does happen. Yet I really don't like the idea of my possible male humping things to death every which way.

In that case a female might be the better option, if there were a way to cut down on the mean periods. I have heard the egg laying can be dettered by keeping them on shorter light periods than you might otherwise. Is this possible or are the hormonal times something to be resigned to? Also, if I ever did decide to breed, wouldn't it be better for the female to have first been a companion so that hopefully she wouldn't get completely wild when the babies came?

Just wondering on the opinions of those more experienced out there. I will not be able to get a lovie for a while regardless, but would like to know as much as possible before that time. TY!


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From: cockatoo-lovie_loverSent: 9/8/2006 2:14 AM
Hello FireAngel!

I've had 2 pet lovies in my time. The first I have no idea of his sex, but assumed was a male due to temperment, the second I purchased from a breeder as a baby hoping to get a male, and turned out after I had "it" DNA'd that I had gotten a female. Now, as with most lovies (and most parrots) they go through quite the nippy stage. It took me 3 months to get through my lovebirds stage, and that was with almost daily handling. But, I think this depends on the breeder and how well they socialize their babies. Basically, mine was fed and stuck back in the bin!
 
From all of the research I did before getting another lovie, I had read that males are MUCH better temperment than females (regardless of breeding season) and the all around better pet, but I have this to say: I would not have wished for any other lovebird than my Keera! She must have been the best female lovie ever if all of what I read was true. Yes, she got pretty nasty and almost unhandleable during breeding season, but that usually only lasted a few weeks to a month, and I handled it alright. Otherwise, she was as sweet and cuddly as any cockatoo! I actually couldn't believe the way she was. VERY well behaved, gave kisses, whistled all sorts of whistles, made kissy sounds and the like. Amazing little bird. The only downside was that she would starve herself when she laid eggs, so I had to force feed her. Unfortunately in her second spring where she laid, she starved herself to death, though she could have also been eggbound...  Now that is in an extreme case, and I'm not really sure why she wouldn't eat, but she was DURN dedicated to those eggs of hers.
 
If you do ever plan to breed, I would purchase an experienced pair to start off. It's a LOT easier, they will care for their babies, and you won't be sitting on pins and needles worrying about whether or not your first time mom will sit on the eggs or feed the babies! Plus, you don't have to worry about your sweet little lovie turning nasty when she has babies!
 
I hope I haven't been too negative, not trying to be! lol, sometimes I can come off that way. I would be more than happy to answer any other questions about lovies you have, even breeding related as I used to breed them as well!

Take care, CL

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From: MSN NicknameRubyTuesday-62Sent: 9/8/2006 8:30 PM
We adopted our lovie from the animal shelter and the previous owner said she was a male. Then she laid eggs. She is very sweet  and LOVES my hubby. Probably because when she is feeling "naughty" and bites,he doesnt care so much since his hands are tough. I can handle her also but when she fluffs all up and looks like a vultureI just leave her be. My hubby can acually handle her when she has eggs,but not me because when she does bite,she doesnt let go right away.Good luck when you get your new birdie.
 
 
Ruby
 
Oh and when she laid eggs the first time,we left them for about 10-14 days and then took them out and the hubby spent time with her and she was fine. Then the next year she laid,we had gotten hr a new "tent". It didnt work so well because she laid them a few months later. So we took her "tent" out.

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From: MSN NicknameRealKitkatSent: 12/20/2006 5:10 AM
hi this is my second lovie ....his name is kiwi ...bright peach face ...chirps to his name when called ...he seems aggressive while in his cage but l do let him out ..l put this towel over my head l dont trust him yet the bites hurt ........so he will look over the towel to get my attention ...then try to bite my forhead dont hurt but humm only if l frown lol dang bird lol ...........well he also didnt like landing on anything but my head l was like oh come on ...leave my head alone ..so he got to the point to land on other things good luck with that now ..hes all over the place lol ............loves what ever mirror l have up .....hes on his own ..l know u should have two but hummm hes so cool chirps pretty good ..at times chirps pretty loud but l just know what to do ..he wants out or his bath time .......to funny who has who trained l say ........loves his corn on the cob ..as well as greens ...not sure if l can feed him hot stuff like the parrots but humm he is a small parrot ..have to read up on them again who knows ....hes just my lovie dovie kiwii ...flys around the house ...so funny
 
oh one day l took a shower put kiwii in the bathroom with me ..he didnt come to the shower for a bit then got brave cause l was calling him ...he wanted to find out whats the noise or who was calling him ....he stood on the curtain railing ..so funny cause l was splashing him ....he would chirp then fly away but then come back lol ..so cute ..hes my lovie bird .......just have to get over him biting yikes ....l wish l could just say No ......but humm well hope to hear back from you kit

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