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Lovebirds : naughty lovebirds have no interest in me - help!
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From: MSN NicknameStinkyWalk  (Original Message)Sent: 11/18/2003 9:43 PM
Hi everyone,
I'm new to this discussion board.
sorry but I have a question immediately and sorry it's so long-winded.
I bought two lovebirds recently (no idea what gender, but not from same parents), I was told they were weened 4 weeks ago, but now I think that perhaps the man wasn't being quite honest as they have no downy feathers and their beaks are fully coloured etc etc.
I got two so that they can be good company for one another, but I really want to tame them to be friends with me too. I normally work from home, so when tame they can be free and safe with me upstairs in my attic room. The man suggested I seperate them for a while. I tried this, yet they yelled so loudly to one another that I felt cruel and so put them facing one another. One day I thought I'd let them free to fly around for a while, and they both flew directly into one cage together, so I guess they made that choice for me and they are now still together.
 
I've made a little headway - I can now stand by their cage without them flying to the farthest corner, but otherwise they show little interest.
How can I tame them and is it likely that this is ever possible? Everyone talks about step ups and this kind of training, but the birds are terrified if I even open their door or just put my finger by the cage. Is it best to try to handle them anyway or will this just break any trust I've since established?
I did try letting them out a couple of times so they could play and so they knew that I only meant well, but of course they were completely unruly, chewed up all my papers and refused to come back to the cage. I was terrified I'd never get them back, but they eventually did when starving.
Any advice would be greatly appreciated. And appologies again for the length.
 


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From: MSN NicknameJuliepoo15Sent: 11/18/2003 10:08 PM
Hey Stinkywalk...(love the name, hehehe)...  The first thing I would suggest to help you tame your birds, and I'm sure many other people would agree, clip those wings!  Second, put them in separate cages, right next to each other.  It's not cruel and it will really help them focus more on you and not on each other.  Work with them each separately...every day.  It's going to take a while to get them used to you.  What I did when I first got my lovebird was got him used to my hands.  I'd stick my hand in the cage and just leave it there while he'd freak out.  I just kept my hand still, did it several times a day and he eventually got used to my hand.  Just start out like that, take it one small step at a time and they will get used to you.  Once tame, you can let their wings grow in again and clip them if they get too bratty....whatever you want, whatever suits you and your birds' needs.  Don't worry about being long winded on this board...  We love it!  Good luck!
 
Julie

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From: MSN Nicknameannieokie100Sent: 11/18/2003 10:39 PM
I completely agree with Julie.  One lovebird would have been enough if you want a tame handleable pet.  You are enough for companionship.  But since you have two, separate cages are a must if you want them to be tame.  I had two in a cage and would take one away to try to tame it.  The screaming was unbelievable.  Never did calm those little fellas down, but I understand it can be done.  I couldn't take the shrill screaming.  And, man, can those little fellas bite--hard.
Good luck with them.
Annie