hi everyone. It's been a long time.  I have been too heart broken to even post.  My husband surprised me with Tuki at X-mas 12 years ago.  Along the way I was given Guffy, had him for three years. He is 20 years old, and had just loved his life with me.  His previous owner, (who raised him from a chick) could'nt get along with him. I loved him, and he loved me too.  My point is this: this summer my husband did nothing but complain about the birds, how much time i spent with them etc.  I agreed, ( very reluctantly) to give them to my friend.  It  was just like giving away my kids. 6  months and I still can't get through a day.  I live in Illinois, and have just found out they gave Guffy to someone who then moved to Florida with him.  I am hoping, and I know this is a long shot, but maybe someone has heard about Guffy, and might let me know if he's ok.  Tuki is still with my friend? and they tell me she's ok, but I don't know.  I am 55 years old, married for 35 years, not working.  I have considered divorce, trying to find a way to support myself, and get my birds back somehow.  That too is a pipe dream. Who's going to hire someone my age with no skills. Worst thing is I love my husband, he can't help his gender. Anyhow if anyone knows about Guffy please, please let me know.  Slave no more.