HEALING STONES FOR MEN
 Men have always been fascinated with gemstones and crystals.  In ancient times carved crystal amulets offered protection from battle wounds, evil spirits, and poisoned wine.  Polished gemstones were embedded into shields for protection during wartime and they drank out of goblets carved from Amethyst to prevent drunkenness!  So it really is no surprise that today most of the lapidary (cutter and polisher of gemstones) are still men. 

In today’s world most men prefer to use gemstones for personal adornment in jewelry, but there are more and more who are once again becoming interested as to the healing effects of their Ruby or Diamond ring they wear each day.  Of course, men as well as women have issues that need to be healed, it is just much harder for them to talk about it.  Some of these issues may be lack of self-esteem and power, stress related issues, health issues, lack of communication, and emotional issues.  I truly feel if men allow themselves to heal with the power of gemstones and crystals they will have a much fuller and happier life. 

If you are uncomfortable with wearing a crystal to work, simply hide it under your T-shirt or place it in your shirt or pants pocket wear it will go unnoticed.  I also suggest placing a large crystal specimen in your office of business; after all, they are decorative objects!  If someone asks, just tell him or her that your kid, niece or nephew is interested in geology! I will now go onto listing the gemstones that I feel will be beneficial to men for healing their issues.

Amethyst- Wonderful for transmuting all forms of negativity.  A large plate of Amethyst crystals will protect you from hostility, great for the office! An amethyst crystal placed on the body or in a pocket will make you calm when feeling stressed.  It is also helpful for headaches and arthritic pain.

Garnet- Great for strengthening physical and emotional energy.  Provides the grounding needed to help with decision-making allowing thoughts to flow.  Garnet stimulates life force by drawing energy into the body.

Hematite- Heals anger and rage, provides courage in the workplace, fosters peace and non-aggression and above all is very grounding.  It is good to have a tumbled hematite to hold when feeling angry. 

Jade- Opens and heals the heart, frees one from anger, selfishness and greed.  Encourages service to the planet, soothes the emotions, encourages giving to others.  Promotes trust in God/Goddess.  Aids movement on one’s path. 

Malachite-  Detoxifies the emotional body, releases negative/painful emotions, and promotes wealth in business relationships.  Preventive medicine for the heart and liver.  Deep healing and cleansing.

Smoky Quartz-  This crystal is used to prevent mood swings, aggressive behavior, and all types of negativity.  Great for the man who is burned out, has a fear of failure, or who smokes or drinks due to stress.  Smoky Quartz is called “The Emotional Balancer�?

I suggest at night to place your crystals on a nightstand or under your pillow.  Remember to cleanse and recharge your crystals at least once a month for best results.  You may wish to review my article on how use crystals and stones for healing.

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