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| | From: DaraIsATiger (Original Message) | Sent: 1/27/2006 4:50 PM |
Hello everyone! I'm new to the group and have a question. I'd love to have kids someday (in a few years, most likely) and wonder what the odds are of having a baby with diabetes. I'm a T1 (dx'd at age 17, 25 now) and under good control, and my doctor would put me on the pump when I start planning to get pregnant. But of course, I'm worried. Is there a study I can read up on or another discussion thread with this information in it? Thanks in advance! Dara |
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Hi Dara, welcome.We have memebers here that have had children with no problems.Hopefully someone of them will see your post and give you some advise. Your a lovely young Lady Dara,saw your picture. take care, MaryB |
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Welcome to the group, Dara! Don't worry where you post your question. Most of us DO see the general board first and foremost, so you stand the best chance of getting a response here. As Mary and Kathy said, we have had several members who have carried babies quite successfully. There are some additional challenges, but if your sugars are well controled, it CAN be done. As far as the baby being a diabetic, it depends on many genetic factors, including how prevalent diabetes is in both families. You could consult with a genetics specialist to get the latest information, and possible genetic testing. God willing, in your child's lifetime, it may be a curable condition, and a non-factor. We all pray for that time to come! Nice to meet you! Hope to learn more about you from your posts. sheryl |
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Hi Dara,
I'm Teri... type two prior to the pregnancy, considered pre-gestational diabetes right now. I'm the one expecting twin boys. I take a ton of insulin (to me anyway) every day, 3 times a day. Feel free to ask questions, and I'll help out where I can.
Teri |
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Thanks Teri! Congratulations on the boys, that must be very exciting. I'm just in the preliminary "worry about my future" phases right now, I probably won't have kids for a couple of years yet. I just want to be fully educated when I do! Dara |
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Aww you are all so nice! I'm going to send this group to my sister, who is a T1 also. She just turned 18, has been a T1 since age 10. Other than her and I, there are no other diabetics in the family (and it is a very large family)! I think she and I will both benefit from being here. Thanks for the warm welcome! Dara |
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Dara, My pregnancy was completely a shock, so it's good you're thinking about it, and getting everything in line. I had been told Jan 21, 2005 I'd need fertility drugs to get pregnant, and July 16 I found out I was about 8 weeks pregnant. Fortunately my a1c's have always been fairly good. (I'm at a 5.7 now). But I had been on many medications that weren't safe, so they were stopped. I wish mine had been planned.>.. but in honesty the pregnancy, other than switching from a one pill a day issue, with the diabetes, to three shots a day, and a different testing schedule was real easy. Until the babies got bigger. Now I'm fighting preterm labor (common in multiples), and some other non-diabetes related issues.
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| | From: Automo | Sent: 5/8/2006 1:47 AM |
I successfully had two children as a type 1; one is now 40 and the other 35...both healthy with no diabetes. Rita |
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OMG!!!!!!! I am so glad that I joined this because I have the perfect story for you. I am 24 and I was diagnosed with T1 diabetes when I was 2. I was told to NEVER have children. I used to live in WV and unfortunately the drs sucked! Anyway, I can still recall my mom telling me whenever I got old enough...please don't have children! You will die and so will the baby. If the baby doesn't die, it will be severely retarded and will never live a normal life. I was scared to death. So, when I was 21 I met a wonderful man who wanted to have children with me. I was the only person in my family with no children (also the only one with diabetes) and I was so depressed! Anyway, I got pregnant (sort of, by accident-if that is possible) and I went to the dr and he told me that my A1C was an "8" and that I was a smart girl and that I would be just fine!!!!!!!! AHHHHH!!! Then, I got married and moved to NC. PTL! Anyway, I found the most wonderful drs that anyone could ask for. (Dr. Bessent, Huntersville, NC OB/GYN & Dr Miller, Charlotte, high risk endocronologist) and they told me that if I didn't get my A1C down and fast that my baby only had a 2% chance of being born completely healthy. They tried to get me to get a pump, but I was so uneducated about them and heard so many horror stories that I told them I would take a million shots rather than have a pump. I stopped at 8 shots a day and got an ANIMAS IR 1200 insulin pump and girl, I don't know how I lived w/o that thing! Through much prayer, great drs, my family and the pump, the drs told me that I was like a normal pregnant woman that didn't even have diabetes! My A1C was a "5"!!! Then on Nov 12. 2004 at 9 am and four hours of labor my BG was in the 80's the entire time, our gorgeous baby was born with NO complications and it was worth every tear and 12-15 times checking my BG a day/shots/pump and everything! I would LOVE to encourage you to have a baby! Please use Animas too. They are professional and wonderful and don't trust a dr that tells you to use Medtronic. They don't know what they are talking about. I'm sorry I wrote so much, but my husband and I went through so much and I just want to let you know if you are willing to work for it, that YOU ARE ABLE TO HAVE CHILDREN! :) I wish you all the best of luck and happiness in the world. I hope everything works out for you! |
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I gotta get in my 2 cents, lol I was dx'ed at 21 years old, type one. Im 34 now. At 26 my husband and I had our first, 2 years later our 2nd, and 2 more years later our 3rd, they are all perfectly bratty little boys, not a problem with one of em, unless my being diabetic is what caused all the CONSTANT whinning. My oldest is now 6, second 4 and youngest 20 months. I too was told never to have a baby, but, BLAHHHHH to them!!!! Aside from being blessed when you do get pregnant and give birth to a beautiful baby, it will be even more special, I think it was to both myself and my husband, and, being pregant, even if you do take care of yourself now, you will do even better with a pregnancy, and youll learn a lot also. |
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| | From: ChrisO | Sent: 1/30/2007 11:45 PM |
I was also told children wouldn't be very likely being diagnosed at 1 1/2 years old. I'm had not taken very good care of myself through high school and college. Found out I was pregnant when i was 24. It was complication free until it was time for his birth. He was a very large baby, 14 lbs. My pre pregnancy weight was 118 lbs. I did go to the OB and my Endo every week throughout the whole pregnancy. The better your control the smaller the baby will be, unfortunatly I didn' t know this until later. Good Luck to you. |
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Wow it's been awhile since I've posted anything! Thaks to all of you for your responses! I'm 26 now and engaged to be married this August to a wonderful man! I see you advise me not to go with a medtronic pump Neptunesmoon, I haven't done TOO much research on them, but hubby works for Medtronic and I'm wondering what the cons are? We'd like to plan a baby relatively soon after the wedding so I'm on the fast track to getting on a pump! I start classes in May. I can happily say that none of my doctors ever told me that havning babies would be difficult, I guess I have some good ones! (Philip Tate, Grand Rapids MI) With my new, stricter control I'm experiencing many lows, so now carry my emergency glucose kit and have educated my coworkers and hubby how to use it. I have great support at home and am glad to have it online as well! You guys are fabulous. I'll be posting a lot more often. Thanks again! Dara |
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hi dara. my name is joann and iam also t1 diabetic and so is my daughter who is now 31 ......and she has 2 babies...she had no problems with pregnancys....she had excellent doctors who monitored her like she was there daughter.....iam now the proud gramma of a 2 and 4 year old....the only problem was me...i worried something awful about her and she learned a lot more about her diabetes than she knew before.....and with gods help grammas hair is only half grey......gl and wishing you all the best |
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I wanted to thank you all for giving me some hope. I was diagnosed when I was nine. Now 26 I'm with someone who made me start to think about the possiblity of having children. I was led to belive at a young age that it wouldn't happen and I simply put it out of my head. Meeting the right person has got me wanting something I was told I could never have. The last few weeks I have been very depressed thinking I couldn't have a normal baby.I've been looking for information lately and I'm very happy to have found this group.Thank you for giving me hope. Abby |
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I got my first minimed pump 22 years ago when I was pg with our 1st DD, she's going to college in England right now. Our 2nd DD is graduating from highschool in May. Neither one is diabetic and I'm keeping my fingers crossed. I've been diabetic for 41 years and never thought I would have children, but my DH said it was the most important thing to him and it became the best thing I ever did for myself. When we saw my endo about this she said that even with diabetes on my DH's side of the family too, our rish was only 7%, DH insisted the odds were too good on our side not to try. I'm kind of surprised diabetics would still be told not to have children, there must be lots of success stories out there. Take good care of yourselves and it can be a happy outcome. |
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Hi Dara,, Well first off your lucky to even think of having children,, there are diabetics like myself whom cant even think of having children. I was told a few yrs after being dx with diabetes to not even go there cuz i would digging my own grave,, so with that said i never did LOL. But i know MANY type 1 diabetics whom have very beatiful healthy babies all the time,, kinda makes me jealous but im sooooooooo happy for them in the same sense,, knowing i wanted at least 2-4 kids of my own. Anyways,, sorry for rambling,, it doesnt matter how good control you are to depend on if your child will be diabetic or not. My sister never got it and she came first dang it!! LOL But i did get it and my father never knew he was diabetic till about six months after i was born and i ended up getting it. I have heard but i know now its not nessarily true but that its suppose to skip every generation,, but i find that hard to believe when i got it and my father has it. Its a chance you take,, but if your child were to ever get diabetes remember you are their best teacher and can help them threw out the jouney,, not to mention how far it all has come and maybe a cure and if not how much easier it will be to control diabetes in the future then it is now or ever has been. Good luck,, take care Hugs Susie |
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