Hi Shelly, and welcome to the group!
I am so sorry for what has happened to you and your neighbors in the wake of the Katrina disaster. Please know that our thoughts and prayers go out to the people of the gulf region. Hope your homes and lives are restored soon!
To your diabetes...how are your blood sugar levels running? I mean, prior to all this stress and upheaval? If you have a reasonable A1c level (under 6.5) then there is much less reason for concern. That "Trojan Horse" metaphor would be true if you are walking around with very high glucose levels. A person can feel relatively fine with a glucose of, say, 300...but there is internal damage being done. Small blood vessels do not like high sugars, nor do nerves. So it is important to monitor these levels, and correct high sugars either with meds or diet and exercise. Excess weight makes things harder on the cardio-vascular system, so it is recommended that diabetics maintain close to an "ideal" weight. Not quite sure why your doctor was trying to scare you...unless you haven't been taking care of yourself.
About the anti-depressants...being tossed about by a hurricane would put Bozo the Clown on zoloft! Who is the doctor kidding? Not quite sure why he would want you to stop those meds NOW? He doesn't seem very understanding to me...I'd want to get a better answer why he wants you to stop. Take care...and God Bless you. Hope life get better for you! sheryl