Would you stop talking to your sister just because another sister asked you to? Any advice on my sister Cheryl?
I have an on going issue with my older sister.
A.- Cheryl (oldest) and Sue do not speak to each other. A situation arose 3 years ago when Cheryl lived with Sue for 4 months while their home was being built. Cheryl did a lot of valid things to upset Sue and her dh plus invaded their privacy of their personal desk, private papers, etc.
B. I get along with all my sibblings.
C. Cheryl told me she is mad at me because I spent time with Sue in Arizona. I also spent time with Cheryl but separately since they don't like each other. (its childish)
D. Cheryl is jealous over what I have with Sue.
E. Cheryl asked me if I would stop speaking to Sue and my nieces since Sue is not nice to her. (in her eyes only)
My sister says I am not loyal to her. I told her I am her sisiter and treat her like a sister and visited with her as much as I could. I felt like a yoyo when I was in Arizona because of my older sister. I am so frustrated over this situation. It is so childish to me. I know Cheryl has a hard time since her dh had the heart attack and brain injury. He rarely speaks and is no companion to her for the most part. All the money in the world can't buy happiness and she has lots. I am done feeling sorry for her...its been 7 years.
I told her absolutely not! I have no issues with any of my sibblings and would not get in the middle of her situation.