yes I know about this surgery... a friend of mine dated a Muslim who I think was some type of prince, and because of religion, I can't remember exactly... anyway, this was discused because he could only marry a virgin... I remember her asking him if his parents were going to check or have a Dr check her..lol
no she didn't have to prove it... the relationship never got to the 'will you marry me" state... I don't remember about the men.... talk about a double standard... and you're right, how can one tell....