good question. always seems to turn from love to hate at some point doesnt it?
me and my ex and i are still friends.
how is a great mystery.. cuz there are certain things i just cant forgive. and i can forgive just about anything. found out he did some really bad bad bad things to his daughter from his 1st marriage.
my roomie found an email i sent my ex and said some aweful things to me.
was furious with me. saying i betrayed him and stuff, and i would pay for it. he would never ever physically hurt me. so i dunno...maybe he was just venting.
hes married...but has been separated for years., and they get along. fine. probly cuz they live so far away from each other.
we are just roomies, so i dont get it. i know we're close friends, but maybe he thinks its more...
so with all that in mind, i think maybe it turns from love to hate cuz of our emotions.what i mean is...when we get bruised emotionally ...the hate part seems to be a way to protect ourselves from further pain.
in the case of my ex, the hate i feel is isnt becuz i dont care about him, but becuz of his henious thing he did with his daughter.
so becuz we hate does it mean we stopped loving the person?
i dont think so... i think we just shifted the love to somewhere else, and its still there.
gsees