DD, Amanda,  is still wearing her heart monitor altho' there doesn't seem to be anything significantly wrong she does have one side of the Aorta that is filling with blood too fast and causing the terrible thumping. She is now four months preg and her SO is being a class A jerk.  He owns a beautiful home with plenty of room, pool etc and is 45 years old.  DD is 29 ( and has the twins who are going on 6). SO & DD have been together for 2 years and had talked about marriage and having a family.  He loves the twins and coaches little league. 

 

Well as soon as they realized that the baby was on the way, he totally changed and can only talk about his feelings, and the changes to HIS life that he can't accept.

 

I understand that DD comes as a package and it is alot for him to take on, but I wish he could at least be emmotionally supportive until after the baby arrives in mid-January.  When ever she tries to discuss anything with him he turns it around and makes it her fault. DD had been left to go to the docs on her own and face all his friends who tell her daily that he is unhappy and doesn't know how to deal with the situation. He was married for 14 years to a lady who was unable to have a child and he always wanted one...so in a way his dream has come true.  He is so settled into his way of life, golf all weekend every weekend, and down to the bar for a drink after work, and hang out with his cronies....that I am not sure he would be a good husband anyway.  My daughter is in love with him and that is all she can see at the moment.  Even her father has disowned her at this point, as he is so disgusted that she is preg.  She calls me on her way to work every morning and on her way home every evening and cries all the time.  I am at my wits end!     Thanks for letting me unload.