Hello ladies, This is something that has happened years ago & for some
reason it seems to be bothering me now once in a while & I don't know why.
It could be because dh & I had a few problems a few yrs ago & this one
here keeps poping in my mind. Its probably really stupid of me for not
letting it go, but is strange for I never thought about it & now I do &
can't figure out why.Anyway here is my problem. Yrs ago my dh & a few
of the guys went on a fishing trip up north, 7 hrs away fom here. The night
they went to the hotel he danced with one or two women I guess which I
thought was wrong. We were only married 3 yrs then. But that isn't my real
problem. He failed to tell my that he gave a strange women a ride home with
all the guys their too. There wasn't even no room to begin with cause their was
6 guys to go home, so she sat on the hump, in the truck we had , cause she
said she wouldn't sit in the back seat with the other guys. He says he didn't
know her, but can't even remember what happened back then & why he offered
her a ride home. I find that hard to believe. After all, if this was a decent lady,
why in the world would she even get in the truck with 6 known strangers in
the first place? He says she needed a ride home cause, she had no one to
take her home. Then why didn't she take a cab or at lease phone someone
she knew to come & get her. I didn't find out till about 3wks after their trip
when my nephew brought it up at our place & my hubby was suprised cause
he kept it from me. My brother was with them on this trip & he told him to not
say nothing about taking this women home. I found this very strange to believe
his story, cause he had kept this a secret. He even told me when they went he
couldn't call either , cause was no place to call, but then the boys decided
to go to the hotels up there. I told him he should have called cause I was
home with my 5 kids then & he could have called to see how we was here,
but I guess that the way men are. We have argued about this a few times
& he still says he did nothing wrong, but yet is very vauge & says he don't
remember cause this is yrs ago but was sober & not drunk so why can't he
remember what really happened or maybe he doesn't want to hurt me, or let me down. I just wish I could forget it ever happened. We have been getting along
really good for the past few yrs, so I don't even know why I still continue to
bring it up.Anyway thanks for letting me vent & just wanted to know your
opinions on this & what do you think about this situation. I also told him if this
was me I would never get in a truck or any vechile with even 1 man let alone
5 men.
Mary
P.S.Anyone here have any problems like mine!
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