A Mother's Words

I gave you life, but cannot live it for you:
I can teach you things, but I cannot make
you learn.
I can give you directions, but I cannot be
there to lead you.
I can allow you freedom, but I cannot
account for it.
I can teach you right from wrong, but I
cannot always decide for you.
I can buy you beautiful clothes, but I
cannot make you beautiful inside.
I can offer you advice, but I cannot
accept it for you.
I can give you love, but I cannot force it
upon you.
I can teach you to share, but I cannot
make you unselfish.
I can teach you respect, but I cannot
force you to show honor.
I can advise you about friends, but cannot
choose them for you.
I can advise you about sex, but I cannot
keep you pure.
I can tell you the facts of life, but I
can't build your reputation.
I can tell you about drink, but I can't
say "no" for you.
I can warn you about drugs, but I can't
prevent you from using them.
I can tell you about lofty goals, but I
can't achieve them for you.
I can teach you about kindness, but I
can't force you to be gracious.

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