Divas....40 & Over

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OK now I feel better. Just one of those mornings I need to scream.

(Angelbear hiding in the vent room)

Becka6- Your BF is e-mailing/playing with three young women ages 20 to 30....

What do you mean sometimes it 's alittle much ,if you know what i mean...??

From what isn't said above, I would tell him to to knock it off!!!!!!!!!!!!!

sending love songs,and lovie stuff ,,,they send him sexy pictures ...not good

When I kiss your lips,

ooh I start to shiver

Can't control the quivering inside

Wouldn't you agree,

Baby you and me

We've got a groovy kind of love.

like this

i've said a few things he said it's nothing

Becka, it is cheating even though it is cybersex.

The messages and sexy pics are way out of line.

Do I have a solution? No. but maybe we can brainstorm it.

Becka! I agree with Angelbear. Love songs? Lovie stuff? Sexy pictures? This is not good. I'd drop this guy like a hot potatoe.

yes i should,but when i'm with him everything is great...yes it's cheating,i have some time with him tomorrow ,we'll talk,,,,thanks

lets see what you think,,,,we talked ,just picture,don't mean anything to him,they have been group friends for years-4-5 years,yes they like to kid around,but they know i'm his girlfriend,i'm real and here,they are not,,,before me thats what he did for fun,play with them,so it's kinda hard to stop,but he said he only talks on group no more e-mails and no mess,[i didn't know this?] one of the girls was going to move here to be with him,just when i started dating him[didn't know this ]but that does make afew things clearer about the way she treats me on group,so he's going to tell them no more picture...we'll see,you think at my age this would be no big deal,but after being married for 27 years ,being alone is different...thanks for being here..

oh yeh i started playing the games sent to him so it's like they are sending lovie stuff to me...lol lol lol

Becka6- How are things going? Do you trust him? Cyber cheating has broken up many marriages, its very real. He could block them.......

he runs his own group so he would have to block many in his group,but he said he doesn't talk to them on line anymore just does stuff in group???so i guess i'll just see what happens ,we're not married or living together or anything ,,,just dating..so do i really have the right to tell him what to do? he knows how i feel, oh will who needs them anyways

If its just casual dating then I guess he can do what he wants. Just remember they don't change later on......

hummmmmmmmm.i guess not casual ,he said we need to start thinking as one ...haha i don't know ...i guess time will tell...don't make plans without seeing if we are doing anything ???????? thats afew thing he said why am i making abig deal out of nothing???

[don't remember dating being like this,,,,maybe i don't remember]lol becka

Thinking as one as in marriage? He said its no bigdeal in what he's doing on the internet?

says one thing does other????

yes he talks about it ...me not so sure

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