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| | From:  charlee519 (Original Message) | Sent: 1/5/2008 3:55 PM |
I don't know whether I should be feeling guilty or not. As I've posted before, my dh is a difficult, immature, self-centered person. He left for Florida last week for one of his annual get-aways. I used to go with him, but quite frankly, I no longer enjoy traveling with him. I just seem to have built up so much resentment toward him for so many things, that I prefer to stay home and enjoy the serenity. I checked the weather for the area he's in and it isn't looking that great. All I can think of is "please let him have good weather so that he'll stay away". Does that sound terrible? Can't help but think anyone who did not know us would probably think I was a real *itch for thinking like that. Saddest part is, I don't miss him at all. Isn't that pathetic? Just realized that this is probably my favorite board "Venting". Much cheaper that going to a shrink! lol |
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No guilt needed. If you need time to yourself....enjoy it. Next time, you go away and let him stay home! |
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Charlee! You have no need to feel guilty and you sure don't sound pathetic, nor are you a terrible person. The burdon of the nasty person falls on your dh because if he were nicer you wouldn't feel the way you do towards him. I wonder if your dh is any relation to my former bad ass husband. He too was very difficult, immature, self centered, commanding, demanding controlling, etc. and etc. I loved it when he was out of the house and loved it even more if he was going to be gone for several days. |
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Vent all you want Charlee. I wouldn't feel guilty. Enjoy your time alone. Make sure he knows he wasn't really missed, make him think a bit. |
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My h just went to visit his friends. Doesn't tell me or ask if I want to go. I often wonder what the people think about him going alone. When we go out together I just tell them I've been busy. He hasn't changed in 28 yrs. |
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Charlee don't feel badly . . . sounds like your husband has created these feelings for you. I frequently feel the same way. Doesn't matter whether he has just gone to the store or on a hunting trip the pray is the same . . .singleness! |
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LOL bernadette....thats exactly why I stay single! |
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