Gee it makes you angry dosent it when the kids take no notice especially when we have brought them up different

But unfornutaly they go out on their own and it all changes and they get so cocky and they think their way is best.

His lawyer needs to be shot dosent he saying that as he should be telling him how silly he is and what really will happen

i agree also with Allears his neighbours will call the cops they have had enough

I hope he wakes up to what will happen if the police are called again

8 underage drinkers x $500 fine each = 8 angry parents that will probably be shelling out the moneys.

 

JJ should definitely be minding his P&Q's because the neighbors will keep calling and complaining as long as JJ is having parties.

Awww sweetie, I know what you are going thru. I raised 3 son's as a single parent.

They are now 32, 31, and 21.  I tried to teach them independance and responcibility throughout their life. My mom died when I was 6 and if I were to be like my mom, I wanted to make sure my son's could cook, clean, and live on without me if need be.

I thanked God when they all reached 18 because I was allowed to live and raise them. Now... when they were 18, on their birthdays, I told them each, "I gave you all the years you needed a mom", now its time for you to show me you learned. I told them I was there for their friendship but they must live with the choices they have made for themselves. When they fall, I say a prayer and watch them stand back up. This is the only way I can help them, because if I interfer and pick up their mess, they will never pick up their own mess.

Tough Love... I know its hard, but they must realize, the real world without mom's shelter is a tough one but could be wonderful if the right choices are made.

Have a cup of coffee and sit back and let him be the man he is choosing to be.

Sometimes a hard lesson is the only lesson we learn.

Luv,

Joannie

I hope you warning sinks in before he is really busted... with a record.

Thank you everyone! I feel so helpless. I know he will end up being arrested because he won't listen to anyone. My friend next door yelled at him and tried to get through to him yesterday. Her son was at JJ's home when this all happened, he is 17 but doesn't drink and was not in trouble.

 

 

CC-  JJ has used the lawyer many times. He got his drivers license back when it was suspended. He has gotten out of traffic tickets and now this. All he does is hand the creep $600 and he gets out of it. Its not right.

 

I am so ready to go back to Missouri.

 

He could lose everything if he gets sued. Maybe he needs some time in jail to learn. If one of the kids die, the lawyer can't help him.

It's hard to just leave them alone to their own mistakes.

sorry 2 hear about this...sending big hugs..