Welcome...you'll make many new friends here and there's always ((( hugs ))) when one needs one.
We live in a gated community also and love it...I go to the exercise class each morning and then water aerobics.
I understand being a caregiver and how it takes a special person...my Father-in-Law was the caretaker for my hubby's mom for a number of years. We helped as much as possible...but know it was very hard on him at times.
Hugs!