you know, i thought alot recently about my ex and her role in this whole thing ,it was through talking to a friend and him suggesting she is insecure that got me thinking this through.she has issues about her appearance,ive often been puzzled as to why because i always thought she was stunning,but she needed reassurance that she looked good, she needed to know she was appealing and attractive. this was back when i didnt know much about astrology or psychology so when we split i didnt really know why we did. but it was probably cos we are both insecure and we couldnt give each other what we needed. 

 

my friend whos a virgo sun gem moon also suggested that one reason things have worked well with his girlfriend and now soon to be wife ,is due to the fact that there is more of a balance between them in the relationship, he said that people who are insecure need someone who isnt for a relationship to work. maybe i should be more carefull about who i fall in love with? like you are both suggesting i should stop looking for that mirror.