maybe a relationship with a very significant person will be the instigator,where i lay myself open with the right person to regain that trust in the universe i so severly lack?
I am probably the last person to ask for advice about relationships so I am hoping that your question was mostly rhetorical! It would be excellent if you could find a person that makes you feel secure and gives you the chance for your confidence to grow but then you stand the danger of waiting to idealising someone who doesn't deserve it. Maybe your 7H Neptune leads to a victim-saviour complex sometimes?
I think most people require some fine tuning as they go - people who've gone straight into long-term relationships when they were young, especially girls who bounce straight from one man to another always seem such bland types, as if they were so uncomplicated because there was nothing particularly exceptional about them in any way, maybe that's the curse of complexity?
Perhaps you have a little trouble finding people you really click with as your chart is so "masculine", aside from your planets being below the horizon your Asc, Sun and Moon are all fire and air, by house association your planets are mostly fire and air too. I've checked the charts of my circle of friends to check the "birds of a feather flocking together" theory. I am the other extreme (3 "feminine" placements), though the extremism may be somewhat alleviated by house positions - with only a couple of exceptions all of my friends have always been "feminine" heavy, never more than the ratio of 2:1 (the 2 exceptions are 1:2, frequently annoy me and I don't intend making any plans with them for a while if ever again).
You probably gravitate towards those that are more "masculine" heavy like yourself (don't forget that mirror just yet) and therefore more outgoing. Since most people are a mixture (those bland people?) perhaps it's harder for you to really find someone that fits your bill which could also be why you're so willing to try to keep them. Then again someone so like yourself wouldn't lead to much of a stability factor between you both so perhaps a few differences here and there in temprement, like your friend suggested, is a vital factor.
im hoping what you say about my creativity comes true ,i have nearly finished writing an album, music/art is where i channel all that 5th house energy when i feel hopeless in romance.ive just got to get all the finishing touches done and i'll then be able to send off cds to labels.perhaps this will help with my confidence? and perhaps that is the key?... confidence in myself.
Yes, sorry I meant to say that 5th house Saturn-Mars could show an opus magnus. The aspect making you feel like you have to work on something creative in order to quell your fears of capability.
It sounds like I'm helping to perpetuate every man's complaint that women are really only interested in money (and I'm not talking about myself) but success really does seem to add charisma to a lot of people, maybe it's the confidence it brings? I read an article a while back in a newspaper which stated highly artistic people tended to have a lot more than their fair share of love affairs. I really didn't find that too surprising wishing that whoever had written it had known enough about astrology to know the 5th house rules both.
i mentioned it in an earlier post before about the galactic centre and how hades is at 25 degrees gemini opposite pluto moving through the late degrees of gemini,hades being the asteroid ruling disintergration?
That is interesting, I've not read any research into that asteroid, disintergration cetainly seems to be a fitting theme in those Gemini friends I mentioned.
sometimes i think i will feel like the odd person in the crowd since i have such wide interests,literally from one end of the spectrum to the other,i could be talking about drum n bass music to one person one minute and then talking to someone else later about science and astrology. and 90% of the time if i put those 2 different people together they would not get along atall!
No need to worry about that, you're allowed to have more than 1 facet to you! Do you keep forgetting you're a Gemini 3 times over and therefore able to know and talk about any subject under the sun? A friend of mine with the same degree sun as you is great to talk to cos we can cover all sorts of subjects and that sort of versatility is so hard to come by, we can talk about anything, though at times I've noticed he'll repeat almost verbatim something I said several years ago when he's talking to other people on a subject if he's not got that much to say, it just goes to prove that it all goes in! Maybe it's a mutable thing, at university I would never have dreamed of doing a single honours degree because 1 subject was just not enough scope.
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