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From: MetteSent: 4/13/2005 10:19 AM
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From: MetteSent: 4/13/2005 10:20 AM

Hi girls �?here’s my story �?I’m pretty active in the group right now, but it’s mainly because I’m getting too frustrated so it’s really nice to be able to just let it out and know that the people who might read it, knows where I’m coming from and why I seem to be stuck in life. <o:p></o:p>

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I’m 26 and I started having my periods when I was 12. It’s always been painful �?or as some doctors insists on calling it “uncomfortable�? Funny how being uncomfortable can mean you’re not able to walk but have to get around on all four. <o:p></o:p>

When I was 20 I started on the birth control-pills. The first couple of years the worked fine but then I started bleeding when I wasn’t supposed to and the pain came back. I was put on my second brand of bc’s and had a lap. <o:p></o:p>

The lap didn’t show anything but no biopsies were taken. When I asked why the reply was that they would have had to take 20 samples and that was too much work! So back to my OB/GYN who recommended acupuncture and that I just learned to live with the pain �?some women just have unexplainable pain I was told. <o:p></o:p>

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Well �?I didn’t really feel ready for acupuncture just yet so I settled with some naproxen and ibuprofen. After a couple of months the pain got really bad again. I called my general doctor for a referral to a new GYN. He said no �?it would be a waist of taxpayer’s money to refer me again and that nothing was wrong with me so I should just forget it. I got really really P**** off!!!!!! So I demanded a new referral since I’m also a taxpayer! <o:p></o:p>

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Finally he caved in and I got the referral. Only the new GYN was really arrogant and just put me on my 3rd brand of bc’s and told me to stop being such a hypochondriac �?nothing was wrong with me and a new lap was absolutely out of the question.<o:p></o:p>

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A week after I moved to another part of <st1:place w:st="on"><st1:City w:st="on">Copenhagen</st1:City></st1:place>, and had to get a new general doctor. The new doctor �?finally a woman took her time to listen to my story. She gave me a new referral and I was of to se OB/GYN number 3! <o:p></o:p>

The first visit went well �?I was put on the 4th kind of bc and the ultrasound showed my uterus to be enlarged and almost looking as if it was sclerotic, so the doctor suspected adenomyoisis. <o:p></o:p>

Between my first and second visit I had been hospitalised with severe pain and my general doctor decided that I had had inflammation in the uterus and ovaries and gave me penicillin. The hospital had given me morphine for the pain. <o:p></o:p>

But at my second visit he had gotten charts from the first doctors I saw and he started the consultation by telling me he didn’t think anything was wrong with me �?I just needed physical therapy for tension and to watch my diet to avoid the pains when going to the bathroom. <o:p></o:p>

Well �?I decided to go se a physical therapist in order to prove the OB/GYN wrong! And as I suspected the therapist proclaimed after 8 sessions that he could do nothing to help me get rid of the pains. During this time I also tried acupuncture to really show them that I was taking this thing serious and that it wasn’t in my head.<o:p></o:p>

So back to the OB/GYN. He admitted that adenomyosis still had to be suspected but since the physical therapy had worked so well and the bc’s kept the pain away �?I was cured!! <o:p></o:p>

I have no idea where he got the information that I was pain free because I told him how much pain medication I had been taking and I had a calendar in which I had written down the days with pain and how severe the pain had been.<o:p></o:p>

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So back to the general doctor one more time. She gave me a new referral. <o:p></o:p>

This time I was really nervous about going to see yet another doctor. But he turned out to be kind, able to listen and actually know something about endometriosis. <o:p></o:p>

He started me on my 5th bc-pill however. But after 1½ month with no effect he suggested nafaralin. I agreed to try and after 3 weeks the pain was starting to go away. However I got other side effects but I continued to take nafaralin for 3 months. <o:p></o:p>

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I stopped a bit more than 3 weeks ago and I’m on bc-pills once again. The pain has come back and right now I’m waiting to have my period. My OB/GYN has referred me to one of 2 national hospitals for women with severe endometriosis and I’m going there for the first time on May 4th. It’s very likely that they will sign me up for another lap.<o:p></o:p>

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On my last ultrasound the OB/GYN told me that my uterus was 6 mm thick and it should only be 1-2 mm which is a sign of adenomyosis, the right ovary has some liquids which was a sign of cysts and also the right ovary is slightly deform suggesting that it’s grown into my uterus. <o:p></o:p>

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For the moment I’m applying for a kind of social security check that you can get here in DK if you have a severe illness that prevents you from working while studying. I haven’t even been able to study as hard as I need to in order to pass my exams in June so I’m likely to get it. That would be a huge stress-reliever. <o:p></o:p>

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My mother and 3 aunts on my mother’s side all have endo! Also I’ve learned that endo can cause the uterus to lean backwards which mine does, that endo can be the reason why I always feel so tired and catches colds easily and that the pain I feel when going to the bathroom also can have something to do with it.<o:p></o:p>

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So �?that’s my story till now! But I haven’t given up yet! I deserve better quality of life than this, so I can be a better future wife and a better student �?and totally - a happier person!

 

If you've managed to read the entire story I salute you - and if yu've just skipped to the end I understand - I didn't expect it to be this long - sorry.


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From: MSN Nickname--Angel--13Sent: 4/14/2005 9:35 AM
Wow Mette...your story sounds so much like many of ours...I'm sorry you weren't believed...it's hard to think that there are so many idiotic docs out there..I guess it makes you really appreciate when you get a good one..LOL...I have many that are now called Dr A..Hole..and Dr Jerk etc..haha...so I know what you are saying..the newer research has shown that there are many colors of endo...and most doctors don't know about any kind but the black spot endo..of course cuz it's so obvious...I wish there were clearer answers for you..I have found the more natural roots have helped me much more than the medical docs..but that's just me..I went the gamut..endo removal at lap...Lurpron..I already had a hsyter but they removed the remaing ovary...drugs and more drugs and more drugs for sleep and pain..finally I said enough when I was taking 15 times the regular dose for sleep meds...so I slowly weaned myself off it all..although the docs didn't want me to and started going to acupuncture, chinese herbs, I see a D.O. (doctor of osteopath) etc..I have much relief from adhesional pain (which can be as bad as the endo) ...the acupuncture & chinese herbs got my bowels working again, some pain relief and some insomnia relief etc..
You are so right that you deserve a better life..keep thinking that way sweety..cuz that's what will help get you through the longer days..I try really hard every day to find a positive..even if it's a flower blooiming in the garden...or a smile one of my kids gave me...or that I got out of bed today ..hehe...hang tough..and know we all understand and are here for ya..many huggz..Angel

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From: MetteSent: 4/15/2005 8:08 PM
Today I went to a counsellor who is free for students at the University. I've been there a couple of times and it helps me to deal with stress better.
Only today she recommended me to seek an external psycologist because it's really starting to sink in that I have a cronical illness and going to see that counsellor once every 2 months isn't enough -
 
Basically what's going on every time the doctor does new blodwork on me is that something rises above the aloved values or something is too low. Before christmas something was too low, in february and march my bloodpresure was too high, in march my bloodsugar was WAY to high and now my livercount (ALAT) is too high.
 
But now my bloodpresure is fine and my cholesterol is up for an A+ if it was a schooltest
 
These days I'm waiting for my period and I hate the wait! Come on! Stop lurking around in the bushes - show yourself and let's get it over with - I dare you!!
 
These days I'm on medication for rheumatism - it's pretty normal to get that for pelvic pain here - but lucky me has been pumped full of that for much too long and in much too high dosis so now I have to take medication for gastic ulcer along the other medication because I about a year ago was hospitalised with acute gastric catarrh!! Hurts as bad as endo when it's acute
 
BUT but - I just spoke to a girl today who went to Glostrup Hospital the day before yesterday and she's having a lap on this forst comming wedensday!!!
 
So I hope big time, that they will have that short a list still, when I go there on May 4th.
 
Luckily the 2 doctors at that hospital are extremely skilled so they know where to look for the little devils and they are aware that it can look black, red, brown, white and so on  So I have no doubts I'm in good hands.
 
I'll probably use this as sort of a log - my mind is cirkling around and around endo all the time so I find it really helpfull to just get it out of my system. Especially since I'm not really able to do much right now except wait it out - both the pain and the time untill I go to Glostrup Hospital.
 
And NOW - there's "pretty woman" on TV for the 117th time - but it's one of the best "feel good" movies ever

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From: MetteSent: 4/16/2005 4:01 PM
I've been reading up on a lot of articles today and I also came aross some written by the gynocologist who did my first lap.... and how ignorant can an OB/GYN be??
 
She actually claims that if you don't see endo on the first lap, then nothing is wrong with you (well - she did that with me too), that endo is only the chocolate-cysts - nothing else can be called endo and that a girl who has so painfull periods that she blacks out, vommits and so on just need bc's from her doc - that it's not neccesary to see an OB/GYN to see if there's something causing these strong pains... argh - I get so MAD that this doc calls herself one of the best specialists in DK!!
 
I found something today about endo that was really helpfull to me.... this morning I bled from my rectum and I found that bowel-endo can cause this - I have earlier been examined for cancer because of this and have offcourse been pretty nervous. My current OB/GYN allready suspects bowel-endo because of pain when going to the bathroom so this underlines that.
 
I found that you can do a lap on the same girl 3 months apart - in the first one no sign of endo at all - in the second one - lots and lots of endo! I feel like calling my second GYN and informing him of this - he wrote in my charts that no new lap was neccecary since that had allready been done and that I just needed to understand that the pain was imaginary. What an IDIOT!!!!
 
How did you stop yourselves from calling all these former doctors and telling them a thing or two about endo and "bedside-manners"??
 
Also I found that endo can cause the liver to pile up different things so maybe this is why my livercount has been rising.
 
So I'm learning a lot of new stuff and I'm allready writing down all my questiones for the doc for my May 4th appointment

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