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| | From:  odd_sox_ (Original Message) | Sent: 9/7/2007 12:03 AM |
Ive just been watching this sex change hospital thing on telly. Bloody hell the things people do. My question is: If you start dating somebody and you start to really like them. You get on well and start to really fall for them, then you find out they were the other gender once, or maybe they are even midstream and havn't had full surgery yet........would it make a difference to you? Would you still keep dating them or dump them? |
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Thanks for the replies girls. Are more people getting changed these days or is just publicised more. Honestly, this guy who was changing...the job they done was incredible. I mean on close inspection you couldn't tell it wasn't an original. Scarey. |
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I think surgeons are just getting better at it Alan, and also more people are having it done rather than put up with what they have. |
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Ok let me answer this one. Although I have just put 97.5 in the other thing, I have to say that If I got on well with them and started to love them or whatever, and I found out that they were either a transexual or about to become one............then I would probably think....bugger it....I dont care. If you love and like somebody.....thats not a bad thing in this world. Rob. |
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| I read all of the comments from the respondents below its amazing that almost 100% of the people responding wouldn't have a problem with it. I guess I'm going to go to jump in on the dark side because I definitely would have a problem. My beliefs are that at the point of conception you are what you were deemed to be. Simplified that means if you're born a boy you see a boy...... if you're born a girl then my golly you die your girl. Historical evidence shows that there's not one single case in the entire world that shows sexual reclassification or whatever you want to call it worked. In every single instance there was so much baggage from the previous life that the person just could not function unless of course appear on the wonder drugs.Exactly wonder drugs.......... everyone was wondering what drugs they are on. Don't we have enough tri-sexual, bisexuals, multi-sexual to satisfy the world's requirements. Is there really in need to continue tinkering with the human body? See I have no doubt that eventually this world will see multi-sexual individuals, people that can screw themselves and reproduce. Then we will have a whole new classification of people. A inbred, undereducated -----------hypert-anxiousr citizenry, aka as Americans |
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Well Traveller thats your choice. No problem. To me love is more important but it's a free world....well more or less....for most...sometimes....oh shut up Rob. Rob. |
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Well if you want my opionion it dont matter. I got this friend who was a ts the other way? Like m to f and shes a well special person. As for dating I dunno. I suppose it wouldnt matter to me as long as I was treated right. Ive met too many lads who are just arseholes so why not. Rock on Vicster. |
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Well Vickster I have already said what I think on this thread earlier, and also add something from somebody else. It's a matter of chemistry. If you fall for somebody then that's what you do. Although I love...how can I put this...oh bugger it....a traditional pounding (sorry for being blunt), I am also a firm believer in the fact that's it the person that matters so I wouldn't let it get in my way.  |
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Good for you Vicster. Everyone should live life as who they really are. Myself, don't think I could date someone who had previously been a women. But that's me who's got a problem, not them. |
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I dont know about all that but I know that Nicola says that dealing with all that stuff kinda made her a better person somhow. She is good to, thats a fact. |
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I have friends who are transexual, I respect their views and reasonings for their transformations. I couldnt knowingly have a sexual relationship with a transexual, no matter how attractive they appear. A friendship relationship would not be a problem to me. btw , who is to say they'd fancy me anyway?..lol |
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I think it must be the hardest thing in the world telling someone that you have started to have feelings for that you have or going to change your sex...I am not sure how I would feel..in some ways I would love to think that I am open minded enough not to let it bother me but then again I am not sure, I suppose it would all depend if I was really "In Love " with them... |
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