Hey Bull,

 

Just now I was reading on the thread where you were talking about pot. That was interesting to me.

 

I'm a recovering heroin addict. Never used a drug until I was 35. Well, my ex hubby loved his weed. In those days I was Mrs. Popular, and seemingly so together. LOL

Yeah right. But I had only once tried weed when I was a teen, and I hated it. Paranoid was not close to the word. I just didn't like it. My husband continued to smoke, but at some point it was getting on my nerves.

 

Well I was probably getting on his nerves. He didn't drink, he's very intelligent, educated, great job, and very responsible. Once we had a child I was like some judgemental madwoman. He started to hide that he was smoking, and well....I'm a woman, and I wanted to be a Detective. So I scoped out the situation. LOL

 

Caught redhanded in the basement with the hash pipe none the less. I divorced him. I mean right there am I a freak or what? Now I think back, and all the kindness, and help people have shown me, and I wonder just how i could be so darn judgemental.

Guilty conscience I guess. I just thought no matter what it was if it was hiden then it was wrong.

 

I look back how years later what I did, and wonder. You gotta wonder. So I just wanted to comment on that. I'm tending to agree with you on that issue.